Dear Bella,
I might sound a bit as we would say “macco” but I have a problem. My wife and I are having a baby. She is five months pregnant but all of a sudden, she doesn’t want me to come to the doctor with her.
We started to go there when she was about three months and soon after, she said she don’t need me there again.
But Bella guess what? She and that doctor have been having light conversations on WhatsApp.
I don’t know if he checks up on his patients the way he checks up on my wife.
It seems strange to me and I feel weird about it. I went in her phone and saw messages from him.
I can recall one which struck my attention “Keep that bundle intact. Maybe baby will move for me at your next visit”. Bella what kind of message is that?
Maybe I am tripping but it seems strange to me. That’s all. Do you think my concern is a silly one?
Gyno Issues
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Hello Gyno Issues,
Your concerns are legitimate. I don’t see why a doctor should be so personal with his client, unless of course they were close before.
Also, most expecting moms would love the support of their husband especially at doctor’s visits and it’s a bit off that she no longer wants you to be there.
Speaking to your wife about the matter is the first thing you should do before casting aspersions and insinuating.
You need to seek answers especially for such an intimate issue.
Best,
Bella
Let us know how this situation turns out.
Really? LOL at the comments!
Is this your first child together? Why doesn’t your wife want you at the dr’s appts? Is it something you said?
My brother evaluate yourself before you cast stones at your wife and doc. And maybe you should have talked to her first before going to Bella, is so allu does put problem in the relationship.
Be rational.
@way-In, It sounds as if you know the person in question personally, and how do you know he didn’t speak to his wife about the situation first before going to Bella, as you put it? Guy whenever you see smoke you can bet there is fire 🔥 my advice to you when the baby is born you should demand a Dna test. Fact 1 there are lots of men given children because mothers don’t know who is the father!!!🙊 🤣
Bro thats a serious thing. I think something is in de air. Don’t take it lightly.
Boss you need to investigate that use tact and be very level headed as you investigate. Do not blow anything out of proportion take your time like a real MI6 guy. If your suspicions becomes fact take decisive action don’t allow your wife or the doctor to run over you let them know you are a man once and for all.
I hope its not the “Evil Mad Dr Supremo” If it is, get a divorce
Another name for Dear Bella, is “”Laughter is the Best Medicine””.
Hellooooooo. The doctor is the father my boy. Make it worse, you in serious trouble if he was her gynecologist
before the belly started showing. Don’t buy no layette yet partner because I see a gwo-pwell and likely divorce coming
The doctor switch your sperm with his. you doh see he want her to keep his bundle in tact?
hahahahahahah, what a comment.
People please stop it, there is nothing going on…most likely the baby was not moving at the last check up so yes as a mother she has to be concern and so should the doctor cause he is being paid to do a job; so she asked a question and as we all see his response “Keep that bundle intact. Maybe baby will move for me at your next visit”…i’m i the only one that’s reading this with a sane mind!
Okay, so why you think she doh want her husband to come with her when she going and see the doctor?
Something doh adding up
@A Mother! that does not address the fact that she doesn’t want the husband to come back to the doctor with her.
That’s exactly what I thought.
I have had two babies and this is familiar talk from my doctors and nothing is going on. For my second pregnancy my Hubby never attended my checkups….he just felt there was no need to and it was no big deal… I always tell my Doc I miss him…now should my husband see this, should he think something is going on? Ridiculous!
Regarding the visits part, well, if my husband came with me the first time and was negative in anyway about anything then I would prefer he stayed home. Women have all sorts of moods when pregnant, so she not wanting him there doesn’t tell me there’s something going on with the Doctor. Sorry. I’m a positive person and that story just seems to be stirring up unnecessary dust.
If this is a true story ‘oo’ , ‘oo’, Sir talk to your wife and quench your concern. If she is doing anything then find yourselves a counselor and work it out.