I am intimately involved with a young man whom I met through my friend. From the time we met I did not think anything much of it, just that he is quite handsome. The first time we went out we had sex. I don’t usually do this but I suppose I fell for his good looks.
However, this continued. I did not tell anyone about this. My friend happened to inform me that he is married, I was shocked. He never told me that he had a girl much less a wife. I decided to ask him and he said he has a girlfriend.
So, I just thought that my friend was not sure, because I would expect him to tell me if he has a wife or not. I do not mess with married men. I forgot about that and we continued our intimate relationship. However, a male friend of mine who saw us together told me that he is a married man.
This I cannot take anymore. Why would two different people say the same thing? I do not care if he has a girlfriend but it means a lot if he has a wife. I know I should ask him but I do not know how. If he tells me he is married, I know we need to stop what we are doing and I do not want to stop.
But it is really bothering me. I am not in love with him, I just love having sex with him. I know I should inquire, but how?
Uhhhhhh!
Dear Uhhhhh
Goodness gracious. What kind of friend would try to hook you up with a married man? Or is it a case where you hooked yourself up?
I am not going to be hypocritical because many people “get down” on the first night-but that is a practice that ends in some kind of turmoil. Two million French men cannot be wrong so chances are your “intimate” guy is in fact married and he lied about it because he didn’t want to lose his “friendly in between the sheets” sessions.
Run. And run fast. Any man who would lie about being married isn’t a man. I am almost certain that you will be able to find another unwed man who is just as good. I have researched and found that he isn’t the only “good” man around.
Good luck.
Bella
For the protection of women, the nurture of children, and the good of society at large, God ave us moral laws to live by. The first of these is the law that says sex between a man and a woman who are not legally married to each other is a sin. The Bible calls it fornication. When people crosss this line they get into all kinds of trouble. Many of the people who write to BELLA are messed up because they have violated this primary moral law. These are the people who keep counselors, therapists, and psychiatrists busy. They do not have good marriages because people draw to themselves the kind of people they themselves are. If they could not remain pure before they were married they often do not think it is necessary to be faithful after they are married. Because we reproduce after our kind their families are frequently a mess. BELLA gave you excellent advice. Run. Run fast. But do not find yourself another man to fornicate with or you will be continuing the mad cycle. Find a single man who is willing to wait for marriage and thinks you are worth waiting for! Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist.
my husband just came down to dominica on vacation and an ugly thing in possy had him like he was hers.Even texing him , i will not live him for you bi— YOU MADE US GET CLOSER THANKS.
and you would be wrong to live tour husband for her
babes there is a reason u were chosen and no one else. you heart and physical emotions are two different. u won the heart,
BOY IS GOD WE HAVE TO GIVE ACCOUNT TO. THAT IS MY BIGGEST PROBLEM. IS A SODOM AND G. JESUS HELP US. D END OF TIMES. PEOPLE DOE MALAE IS ENJOY SIN AND LET US GO… LIFE, LIFE. PEOPLE NO LONGER HAVE RESPECT FOR MARRIAGE. D MAN WILL KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HIM AS A RESULT OF HIS ADULTEROUS BEHAVIOUR. HE WILL B CAUGHT WHEN HE LEAST EXPECTS AND WILL BE DEALT WITH ACCORDINGLY BY GOD. I TELL U IF U VALUE GOD TRUST ME U WILL NEVER TRY TO DO WRONG.
am im wrong to hunger for the gentleness of your touch, knowing that there is someone else at home who need me just as much? If loving you is wrong i don’t want to be right, because being right means being without you!
damn it man….. DOMINICANS ARE SO HYPOCRITE AND JUDGEMENTAL….it have few woman who haven’t slept with a taken man.. most of you have so many skeletons and allu want to be judging….. gosh man….
iz woman like u dat breaking up happy homes and spreading s t d and aids…do so never like so but my grl wat goes around comes around..i hope u can handle it when u find out ur man or husband doing u d same thing…allu loosing value 4 allu punany when u meet a man u want 2 marry d pu**sy will b worn out no more grips..i cannot overstand bitches like u..a dog u b man
that’s not fair, i feel sorry for his wife, iz men like that that disgust me! How can he disrespect your wife like that? i don’t blame the woman at all
Eh beh look a bunch of hypocrites ! I admire how everybody so damn holy
Ok, I agree with the general sentiments around here that she should have exercised a little caution, and research about the guy prior to sleeping with him. On another note, has anybody considered that the man probably has a lackluster marriage or issues at home? I agree that lying to her is more than low…but what if he’s just looking to escape stress, and she just provided the right avenue? I’m not saying it is right or justifiable, but relationships are not as simple as A B C. Sometimes we have to try to analyse stuff before giving our two cents. Our society has alot of immorality, both men and women. But have we ever stopped to UNDERSTAND what the reason is behind all this?
This is one of the most disrespectful things I have ever herd.” I dont care if he has a girl friend But if he has a wife I take it serious” whats the difference the man is taken some women just like to lower their standards too much find your own man and leave the married man alone. Sex is not all And to make matters worst you saying you dont love him just the sex , what is really happening in this place people opening their legs without having serious feelings for their sexual partner. Girl get some morals, because I am sure you will never want someone to do that to you . have you herd of generation curse it may not fall on you but your generation will surely feel it.
that’s life King Shatoo get over it wtf Do you know how many men are having sex with women without having feelings for them, then what ? its o.k. When its a woman, she’s this and she’s that? she is all kind of salop and bitch but at least she is being honest don’t be shocked at her honesty. So she don’t care about the girlfriend, oh what the hell.
NOW I HAVE A QUESTION TO POSE TO THE WOMEN
You are dating a guy who has a girlfriend that he is living with in “house” and he decides that he love you so much he wants to leave the girlfriend and marry you, How many of you will bite your
nails and shyly say “OMG you want to leave your girlfriend for me? Oh No No No that’s not right
stay with your girlfriend I don’t want you to leave your girlfriend for me” ha I don’t think so. Most of you all talking and crucifying the girl behaving like all you man was just walking around aimlessly
and single waiting patiently for his one little girlfriend that’s you yeah right allyou too damn hypocrite
Both of you are in the same boat. He did not tell you he was married, and you do not love him. This plain nasty! You do not love him but you continue to have sex with him. Both of you not have have any principles.
This is so true. These kind of people seem to find each other. And because humans reproduce after their kind their children grow up living the same way. Consequently, some localities have a disappropriate perentage of people living like this. Polititians, school teachers, clergy, and counselors are afraid for their jobs and will not speak out because of the perceived need for political correctness. (Of course many of these are not living any different themselves.) Or maybe it is because so many people now think it is the normal way to live. If so they should take a close look at the consequences: teen mothers dropping out of school, single mothers struggling alone to support their children, children growing up through childhood and into their teens without a father in the home, children going into young adulthood not knowing who their fathers are, young women being used and left like damaged goods by men who decide they can do better, and the increase in STD including AIDS. What might help is an all out educational program teaching the solid Biblical morals and values that held society together for centuries past. What would help most is a Holy Spirit anointed life changing revival of evangelical Christianity that would begin in the pulpits of our churches, sweep through the pews, and reach out into the gutters of our communities. Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist.
ONE phrase comes to mind:….
“KARMA is a B*TCH”
There’s something called ‘Principle’. Either you have it or don’t. If you don’t, be happy with your lifestyle, and don’t feel judged. Just be happy…
Sex all the married guys and bfriends out there. At 60… you’ll just reminisce of the all the short lived affairs and revise your list of lovers. Yeah!!!!! 
Yeah that’s my girl
so many men sexing women without loving them at least you protect your heart and make sure you get a good f@*k and make sure they spend some money on you. Nice clothes, jewelry, hair and nails look pretty darling if you can still do it at 60 go for it girl 
A bunch of damn hypocrites, Dominicans! That’s all they can do, judge people but their characters are one of the filthiest. Most of you look inside, your cupboard has all these skeletons that needs a serious sweep.
Polygyny (a man having plural wives) would solve that problem, case close and stop the hypocrisy. Many women in Dominica enjoy having relations with men who are already taken.
All Mister had to do from day one is put his cards on the table and be a man.
What second wife the desire of sinful nature more sex. THAT would be Adultery only muslim like you think like that.
@ Francis Chicago: Are you insinuating that all the prophets you believe in from the bible were adulterers? Abraham, Jacob, Solomon etc? Are you saying that the prophets of Allah were adulterers? No Francis for a surety there were not, they practiced polygyny. There is a major difference between polygyny and adultery. Check your dictionary and learn wisdom.
Please do a little reading about Islam because from your writing I can see you do not have a clue.
http://www.whatsislam.com
http://www.islam101.net
http://www.whyislam.org
OLD testaments HOLY BIBLE JOHN 14 ;6 JESUS COME TO SHOW US THE WAY .
I agree.
Shut up you all don’t know anything about the muslim principles and Islam Ignorant fools
you the fool
it seems that this is the story in Dominica now married men with people that is not their wive’s i think the married men are to take most if not all of the blame for this because they are the one’s leading the girls along and the girl themselves are so stupid they know damn well the men will not leave their wife for them and they still there calling and texting those men at their home in work all over they have no respect for the man wife much less his children if he has any and this is really frustrating especially if you are a wife who cares for your family i think those women should change their life and look for their own man instead of planning to sleep with the married man and sell their soul to Satan because they will be doing the work of Satan
This is nothing new and as the world progresses and people become immoral so will this situation. This has been going on ever since, prior to our birth. It could also be a hereditary trait and what children observed in the home.
It appears as long as the world continues it will always happen and everywhere. It is a temptation which some people cannot resist and overcome.
Keep in mind it takes two to tangle, unless the woman was raped and/or forced into this relationship against her will. Otherwise it is consent.
Satan is rampant in the world seeking souls for his eternal cauldron of everlasting fire.
u sound like one of them girls take your husband, or sleeping with him. i am a married woman but the thing is a lot of women change after they are married. they do wanner have sex because they are always tired. they do wanner do diffrent positions again because they are married and all sorts of bull s**** so the men will go out there for some excitement. I keep my hussey wanting more. i play dressup we use sex toys, we try new positions all sorts of things to keep it spicy. More married women should spice up their married life and the husbands will stay home more.
Now you talking girl friend of all those hypocrites on D. N.O you are the only one that sound real so you got my vote. Please send me the recipe i will appriciate it very much. Much respect.
IN MY OPINION U CAN GIVE A MAN ALL D SEX IN THE WORLD. D HOTTEST EVER AND HE STILL GOES OUT. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEST OR MORE SEX. PEOPLE CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS. MONEY, VARIETY, E.T.C U NEVER KNOW Y HE CHEATS UNTIL HE GETS HIS A$$ IN SOME HOT WATER.
First of all this nasty salop is a trick and a useless goat who does not know how to lie….
“I DONT NORMALLY HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST NIGHT” Yeah yeah eat shit you know you do and now we all know you do….
And the veamin have no shame and she coming on here talkin as if its something to be proud about….
You bloody fool! Can you read? There is nothing in the young lady’s writing to suggest she is proud of what she is doing. On the contrary, I think she is quite honest about the mess she got her self in. In fact, she admits that likes to have sex with the man but does not love him. Based on her story, I think she deserves some understanding. I would like to agree with Bella in suggesting that she breaks off the relationship immediately given that the man is married and bloody liar at that!The dishonesty here lives more with her married lover, not her. So my friend, take back your senseless insult and apologize to the young lady for her courage in honestly admitting her indiscretion with a married man. I am on her side.
AND YES THE MAN IS DOG BUT IF YOU SEE HE CARRIED ON LYING TO HER ITS BECAUSE SHE ALLOWED HIM TO….
them dominica woman thinking when they f**king your husband he is they own and sending text and calling your husband when he in bed with you ….alot of them working with them men know they have wife and kids and trying to distroy they life ….. a woman that working at guiyave she think when she had f**k my husband he was going to waiste time with her well madam is not your he is mines so he don’t need you sending nice f****** text back off bitch…. before you f***** him he had wife and kids u see that too late
Why you sounding so angry and bitter it take two hands to clap. Your husband was a willing participant in this. You need to sit your husband down and have a serious talk with him tell him
to keep his pants zipped because his tolley belong to you and you alone. Remember the tolley have to get hard first before it rest it head somewhere in the woman’s cave. Let’s see if your husband listens to you. Some of all you women getting mad at the wrong person all the damn time
OH MY GOD! MAAM U SHOULD NOT HAVE. TURN TO GOD. DON’T GIVE HER MAPWEE GOD WILL DEAL WITH THEM HARLOTS……….
It seems like you’re looking for someone to agree with you.
To tell you what you’re doing isn’t a problem.
At the end of the day if having sex is more important to you than your own dignity\virtue. So be it.
Sooner or later you will realize this is just another man jumping in your hole, who isn’t contributing anything spiritually to your life.
I NEVER SEE AN IDOIT LIKE YOU. WHY ARE YOU HAVING SEX WITH A MARRIED MAN YOU DON’T LOVE. WHAT ARE A HOME WRECKER OR A SEX SLAVE. PEOLPLE LIKE YOU GIVE
WOMEN BAD NAME. YOUR FRIEND TOLD YOU HE WAS MARRIED YOU PUT ON YOU RUNNING
SHOES AND RUN. I DON’T SEE WHY YOU ARE ASKING BELLA FOR ADVICE WHERE AS YOU
HAD ALL FACTS. HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU DON’T LOVE BECAUSE HIS HANDSOME
MAKE YOU THE BIGGEST SEX FOOL I EVER HEARD
This cycle will NEVER stop… Damn
Dont know bout you men out there, but one woman’s crotch is good enough for me… Cause i only have one dick and should therefore satisfy only one woman ;) when she’s happy, i’m happy
Some people don’t know that SEX is the most dangerous sin . SIN from sex evil spirit condemnation spirit of Adultery loneliness sorrow suffering fear aids temptation poverty eagerness lustful pleasure anger selfish drunkenness death ; ecclesiastes 2=24-25 purpose meaning a reason for living.
Tanya: Hello, Natalie? This is Tanya.
Natalie: Tanya who? You mean Tanya who tek meh man and gwaan like she waan broke fight pon mi pon top ah it?!
Tanya: But Natalie datta when me was young and foolish…..
Natalie: Foolish?! That was last year!
Tanya: But people change…
Natalie: No change! No, I don’t waan hear it!
–Hold On–
Back inna day me an me friend dem used to move ex
cut and go tru das how deh crew used to flex
any man we see and we waan we jus tek
gyal talk too hard get ah kick inna she neck well
couple of times you used to call me pon de phone
cuss me how fi left your husband alone
ah jus now me ah fully understand
why me really need fi leave your man
cuz him refuse to look wuk so his pockets stay bruck
cant mash ah ants but him want to chuck
you say you really love me nah fight dat
wifey please come tek him back
And you can find im clothes dem pon de lawn
if when you come you nuh see me me gone
’cause me no love how yuh man ah peform
so, tek him back, wifey, tek him back
Look how me used to brag and show off
down inna de end you have de last laugh
even if it even means dat mi haffi pop off
you ah go tek him back, wifey, tek him back
you betta tek him, you haffi tek him back, you betta tek him back
Me tink him was ah de toppa de top even bottom ah top
Ah him friendly wid every piece ah ice imma rock
ah tell me bout him have ah drop-top and ah yacht
meh caan believe ah gyal like me fall fi dat!
if me nevah did so vex me woulda find it funny
when me ready fi spend and find out him nah have no money
Free paper wa me geh him meh have to turn down buddy
me ah givim back to you cuz him ah really your honey
Me look kinda magga widdim , himm look kinda cute
but you fi really have im cuz you have him youth
say you realy love him but me nah fight dat
wifey, please, come tek him back!
Well ah de 1st rule ah shopping
let de buyer beware
be careful how yuh tek a gyal man go dere
yuh might grab someting when she jus about fi dash
cuz one gyal treasure is anudda gyal trash
me notice certain likkle trend datta gwaan
man alwayz look betta inna de nex gyal arms but im neva fail soon as de nex gyal gone
de newness rub off and de man lose de charm
When de clothes dem reach de lawn
You woulda pray to God him would pack and gwaan
have a cute face but him nah perform so tek him back
wifey tek him back
Look how me used to brag and show off
down inna de end you have de last laugh
if it even me say me haffi pop off
you haffi tek him back
yuh betta tek him back
SORRY BUT I CANNOT READ THAT BROEKN ENGLISH.
BROKEN
Goodness me, why is there always a ton of folks on DNO blowing bubbles and talking pure hypocritical shyyte…mehhn!!
The way I see it Bella, this girl aint sure what role she wanna play (I’m advising that u listen to some Tanya Stephens and get urself a clue). U can either be a good girl or a bad girl…not both sweetie. If all u care about is the sex, cause u say u’re not in love, u don’t care if he got a girlfriend … then why the hell would it be so different if he got a wife? All cheating is cheating, whether there’s a ring in between or not. Now if u were a good girl, then baby u wouldn’t have gotten down the first night … hey, don’t get me wrong; alot of us women give it up on the first date whether we admit it or not, some of us have a little more “wespay eemay” than others so we play the game … but still, u only got urself to blame if things aint turn out to be DisneyWorld afterwards. I aint see the point in asking Bella for advice here. If u’re doing a married man, it’s adultery. If u’re doing it outside of marriage, it’s fornication … so if it’s morals u’re thinking about sweetie, u’re neither here no there. My advice to u is to search ur soul and find out exactly what type of woman u are … that way the next time u drop ur panties, u would have asked all the questions u needed to and hopefully a little less regret.
So you expect the man to tell you that he has a wife/.girlfriend? THAT IS PURE NONSENSE. As a matter of fact YOU done sweeten the @$&!% between his legs…and you gave it easily. He will not let you off the hook so easily.
2. You should have a conscience and should follow it. So what you gwan wait when the wife come at your door with a shot gun?
3. If youu really believe you are worth-while, get out while it is early.
OK listen up people stop actin so self righteous i have in fact been with someone who was committed…i liked being with him but did not want a committed relationship form him cause i knew he had a girlfriend… stop acting like this is not the norm in Dominica …like you guys are so surprised ..was it wrong yes …
i am now living my life to please God…if you are not a christian…..if you are not planning on being a christian…i would advise you…if sinning makes you happy…then sin as much as you can..cause after this life it is going to be terrible.. so enjoy your life as much as you can on this earth…if having sex with a married men makes you happy then do exactly that….if you are a man and you love having extra marital affairs…then have as many as you can..just protect yourself from std’s…what’s the point of not enjoying yourself on earth if you are going to hell ……so young woman either give your life to Jesus Christ and live by his rules or keep having sex with the guy if it make you happy
YOU ARE A VERY BIG IDIOT I REALLY WONDER WHICH GOD YOU’RE PLEASING.CHRISTIAN ? NO
Girlfriend…You mean he LIED to you to get some??? WOW!!! How weird!…duh! For some guys having sex is like eating pizza…and you just happened to be the slice on the side ..**shrug**
He wanted to get some and he did…I not judging..just saying.
As you said though, you just love sex..there’s nothing wrong with that BUT Karma is the ultimate “B”
What goes around REALLY does come back around again so…take your pick. So called “good sex” or bad karma…mmmm
THE MAN IS A PLAYER ,PLAYER
What’s wrong with giving a married man some.
well punk…for one he is married n 2 u will reap what u sow.
Nothing, if u are his wife
Happens to me a lot,I meet all type of women and they give it up to me so easily wonders if there are any good women left
and i wonder if there are any good many left? they accept the punani so quickly…jeezzzz
SHATTA BUT YOU GAY I JUST WATCH YOU WHINIG ON TONY
He complaining about getting punanny damnnnnn
The man is a damn liar
The man wife is a damn retardd
And the woman is a damnass
WHAT MAKES THE WIFE A RETARD?
This seem to be the norm in these times. woman (young, grown ups and old) jus fk with any man they find appealing, without considering the consequencies. some do think of the consequencies but then say fk it I going ahead any way. it is plain wrong, tho it is very easy to end up in such circumstancies. STOP AND THINK WHAT U WANT IN LIFE AND MAKE A DECISION FOR THE BEST! DON’T GO INTO ANYTHING U’LL REGRET AFTER.
Stop and think??? Yo life goe’s on.
YA! EASIER SAID THAN DONE, I AM NOT CONDONEING SUCH BEHAVIOUR. BUT IN DOMINICA IN THE LAND OF THE BLIND THE ONE EYE GIANT IS KING. SOME THINK OF THE LIKELY CONSEQUENCES AFTER THE FACT. AND ITS A DAM SHAME. THE TRUTH ONE OF MY FRIEND TOLD ME WHEN TO**Y MEET PU*** EVERY ONE INVOLVE GET DOTISH, MY RESPONSE WAS WHEN YOUR PU** START ROTTENING ONLY HELL WILL AWAIT YOU.AMEN TO THAT!
YOU know, but you’re having so much fun, you’re in denial. Please STOP; you are taking a dangerous road and it will hinder you in every way. Good luck,,
I felt sympathetic but at the end you say , ‘you are not in love with him, you only enjoy the sex.’
That changes everything. Because if you had at least said that you were in love, I could understand.
But you’re there only for the sex, even now you know he’s married? Come on….
That makes you a big fat b**** and a home wrecker. Do the right thing.
She mus really b nuts!no mormal women does dat.
Brown sugar stop being naive a lot of normal women do that but of course they will come
on D N O and pretend they holier than thou condemning people who are open about what they
are doing
The persons who are pressing the dislike buttons and agreeing with this fast girl are just others like herself who seee nothing wrong with being intimate with married men–blight blight blight, or they interfare with other serious woman’s relationship who are trying to go the right way, no self esteem RUBISH kinda gyals ewwww
people like you are so delusional! stop blaming the women, blame your dirty dog husband/boyfriend who betrayed your trust! while you’re calling these women all kinds of name he’s out there cheating on you with another one. idiot…
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NOW NOW THIS HEFFER(FEMALE COW) NEED TO GO OUT TO PASTURE AND FIND HERSELF A SINGLE BULL YOU NO BLOODY BETTER THAN A BITCH(FEMALE) DOG, THE FIRST TIME EH WHAT MORALS DO YOU HAVE N COMING HER ON DNO TO SPREAD YOUR FILTH HEFFER GET A LIFE I JUST WISH YOOUR CROCTCH GET AN ITCH YOU CANT SCRATCH LITTLE FLY
Was that really necessary? Both parties are wrong, but you needed to go down that path? what makes you so self righteous?
ask her again?? they all playing part innocent, but behind closed doors they just the same if not worse!!! they need to stop judging others and look at themselves first!!!
shut up Dominican people you guys are no different…………..your men are cheating left right and center and you just accept it. you all are in no position to criticize anyone.
Bella for once i agree with you…i for one am sick and tired of these young SAL…ps getting with married men and then pretending that they did not know that he is married…But that story sound like the young B…h that was having the affair with my husband. Girl you know the only reason you are writing to bella is because you ask him to leave his wife for you and he told you he will not leave his wife. You say you did not know he is married? all you had to do was ask(if you are in dominica) dominica is a small place where you can find any and every body and you can find out things about everybody. So you know darn well that the man is married and you just hurt that he will not leave his wife for you. CLOSE YOUR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN B…CH.
maybe if u knew how to take care of your husband and make him happy in the first place, he wouldn’t have found someone else to sleep with. Allu will always attack the women, instead of allu slut of a husband, thats why he will keep doing it…. and u urself well stupid to stay with his ass!!! Stay dere and take ur thing, i wonder how many more he have behind your back!!!
you sound like you have unresoved issues that to take up with your husband.
Not saying that sleeping with married men is acceptable but you need to focus
your anger/energy toward your husband NOT the other woman.
WITH ALL THESE COMMENTS YOU ALL POSTING UP THERE. I AM SURE SEVERAL OF YOU HAVE BEEN IN SIMILAR SITUATUONS. THE MAN JUST LIED TO HER, SHE FELL FOR HIM SHE SLEPT WITH HIM YES BIG DEAL, HE IS THE ONE THAT IS LIEING ABOUT HIS STATUS HE TOLD HER HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!WHAT IS THAT…HE IS THE LIL BOY , NOTHING IS WRONG WITH SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE THE FIRST TIME. WE MUST STOP BEING HYPOCRITE. SHE SHOULD STOP SEEING HIM NOW BECAUSE SHE IS GETTING TO KNOW NOW THAT HE IS A BIG LIAR AND HE IS MARRIED.
@STUPES Very well said bunch of damn hypocrites
she have no problem screwing him knowing he have woman….girlfriend or wife. Mamzelle just a salop…just screwing him just for screwing sake, she not even in love with the man. so disease just spread dere
What I don’t understand is why cane’t she stop if she does not love him????????????????
cause she loves the d**k
duh
i dont get why u writing to bella…u dont need our help or bella’s, u have all the answers. You dont love him, you love just havin sex, u dont mind being the second woman in his life so girlfriend or wife…why should that make a difference???? either way u still number 2…and u want to know how to inquire? u dont know how to ask a question? someone elses valuabe troubles could have been tended here today, u just waste de space in bella column…i well vex.
true thing sweet pea, some of them like like to play number two and want sympathy you serious leave people man alone go and find your very own sakway Sal**p
You “do not mess with married men” but you had sex with him on the first time out – so you do mess, you continue to mess and you are a mess!
OH PLEASE THE FACT IS NOT ABOUT SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ON THE FIRST NIGHT I SLEPT WITH MY BOYFRIEND THE FIRST NIGHT AND AFTER 6 YEARS WE ARE STILL TOGETHER.
after six years and you have no shame to say that sweety he value as nothing thats why you ain.t wifey he is afraid of how quickly your drawers(panties) come down think of it .hot crotch
.
what a comeback..lol
I know it might be hard for you simple minded fools to comprehend but there are actually women out there who do not base their self worth on whether or not a man wants to make her “wifey”.
you probably sit at home, cook his meals, wash his clothes etc, while he’s out with his boys living it up and STILL cheating on you. know your worth as a woman. and it is NOT to merely be some man’s wife.
you are a dum fool marrigae has nothing to do with it . you get married when you are prepared i have no intensions of getting married soon so what is you point on this agenda now.. people run and get m,arried then look just look at all these rubbish going on here cheating husbands and cheating wives who in love with who husband. now why should i go and tie myself .. leave it how it is when i am ready to move on i move if something goes wrong. i ma not looking for no ring.
think i am going to tie nyself and i have my carrier to achieve
charmed after six yrs u still with him but just as a girlfriend not a wife when he ready for that he will be gone any woman that give me that shit the first night will not be my wife.guess that man off yours think like me.
I know it might be hard for you simple minded fools to comprehend but there are actually women out there who do not base their self worth on whether or not a man wants to make her “wifey”.
Darling before you an put marriage on the counter think of your future and carrier i love beeing an indepndebt woman and thats what my man love. i am heading towards my carrier and him towards him anything to do with marriage it will come after we achieve what we want in life …as far as i see soe of you guys might just have uneducated house wives. il horn at you all iin the future when i will be passing with my porsh and then my HUSBAND on the side . it could take 10 years i dont care.. thats why some women man give them babies and leave their ass by the road.
@ just a suggestion… u cant read? she said that he did not say he was married.. she heard that from someone.. dont be a fool.. read and understand.
oooooooh! Look blows on my head. I read and understand very well and I may be many things but fool is not one of them. The woman KNOW’s he is married, dont you think? Bella thinks chances are he is married. You read…… she says she does not want to ask him because even if he says he is married she does not want to stop. It does not matter how many people tell her, she’s in denial. Just say we agree to disagree, that’s allowed.
You to slack get a life and leave the man alone
THE GIRL IS NOT TO SLACK THE DAM MAN IS JUST A DAM LIAR.
THE GIRL IS SLACK SHE SPREAD EAGLE ON THE FIRST NIGHT AND I SURE SHE DID NOT USE A CONDOM THOSE girls there too s..op SLACKNESS
She reminds me of clothes pins. You squeeze the head and the legs fly open. GET A LIFE GIRL.
That made the laugh. I’ll be looking at my clothes pins in a different light now.
Sad but its so common, some women have no self respect. As for the man, how would he like it if his wife had an affair. Hope they are no kids in all this turmoil.
what man dont lie? its in der nature the girl slacker dan slack, FIRST night pah mwe
The girl is stupid, no doubt… but let’s at least recognize the man’s an a**hole as well.
yeah i am guessing that she did not think he may have aids… maybe he to handsome for that….
Dominican women must be careful… if u did not know Dominica is one of the countries in the Caribbean with a high amount of HIV virus for its population… Be careful out there
so u will never have sex. did she say she was having unprotected sex? i think not.
tell them that again, they like sex, like to flirt forget about AIDS, DONT THEY KNOW WEAK PEOPLE FALL INTO FAST TEMPTATION, WHATEVER HAPPENED TO PHONE NUMBER AND ILL SEE U GAIN oh PLEASE
why some women are so loose? you slept with him the first time you went out and now you ‘playing’ concern whether he is married or not? Had you kept your panties on and get to know him first, you would know!! You have no self respect!
stuppsssssss!!!!
LMAO you mean you didn’t ask any question please who think you playing i guess you must have slip
and fell on his D,Woman who think you kidding thats a habbit you have and my book you are nothing but a B.
That girl Is Stupid…. Good she should Continue so when she continue he will cheat on her with me let me see how she feels…Dumb
Then that makes you all the more stupid!!!
hahaha, boy some people really stupid eh, for real, the first anonymous is a tehbeh!!!
smh…what is wrong with you anonymous
Yes Bella, you advise her to run. But as a young woman she also needs to carry a stable head on her shoulders. Because a guy is handsome you can’t just have sex with him on your first night out. She has no idea of who he is. This tells that she is a no-good woman. She must clean herself up and take her time to find a good unwed man.
“The first time we went out we had sex. I don’t usually do this but I suppose I fell for his good looks.” Stop lying, women says this all the damn time when they know it isn’t true.
This girl must have fallen on her head.
or her head under her foot
mamzel is a bit**