My fiancé blocked me on Facebook

Dear BellaMy fiancé and I have been together a year next month on the 1st. My problem is we had a huge fight over something I posted on Facebook about our relationship, which led his friends laughing at him and making him feel embarrassed.

So he blocked me on Facebook and changed his password and his phone password. At first he didn’t want to give me his phone password but he finally did. A day or so passed and I asked him again for his Facebook password, he said no because he has no privacy and he blocked me because he didn’t want to see any of my post.

So when he was asleep I went through his phone and check his text messages, Facebook, call list etc. It hurt me so badly that out of everything he done to me, he had to go and block me. I’m like almost his wife and mother of his soon to be born son, why would he need to do that for? Is he cheating? Is he hiding something?

Even though it kills me so much and I want to keep asking him for the password, I let it go. I learned that if he does cheat and what so ever, it’s on his conscience.

I feel like I can’t be with someone that does that to me, it’s like I can’t trust him. I don’t know what to do or what to think.

Please help me, I  am tired of crying and being hurt so badly. I told him to leave so many times because he said he is tired of us arguing and so on, but he never does leave. I don’t know why he says that and when I tell him to go he doesn’t.

Sincerely,

No trust

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Dear No Trust,

Recently I got an email from a reader with the same basic issue: Facebook passwords. I am going to tell you basically the same thing.

I don’t see the reason why you should be giving yourself such a headache over being blocked on Facebook. As a matter of fact, I don’t see why people are giving themselves such heartaches over Facebook.

Everyone should have some personal space and that is what your fiancé wants. No matter how much two people love one another, the two are entitled to their personal life.

Now, I do sense a huge issue of trust and insecurity here and for the sake of the relationship you need to take a look at that. Why did you go through his phone and check his messages? What is the source of this? Has he done anything to you in the past? Has he cheated?

I think you should look a the positive things in your relationship and stop losing sleep over being blocked on Facebook.

Bella

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96 Comments

  1. Renee
    September 4, 2019

    Nothing like immaturity in that woman social media has really broken so many relationships. From that ladies point of view, the lady is not interested in the mans password or anything. She is worried on why she is blocked. Men nowadays date openly on social sites fb being one of them. Posting something that embarrassed her fiance shouldn’t be reason enough to warrant blocking!! He should have sat her down and warned her not to do such a thing again. Its not about password but freedom to let her be in his social life. Why block her, what is he hiding?? Definately it isn’t about the private business that was posted and embarrassed him, there’s more to it. This is a relationship that has matured and all they need to do is be free with each other even if passwords are not shared but free to interact online on social platforms as well. Girl take a chill pill and decide what’s best for you as long as the unborn baby is safe. All the best.

  2. Anonymous
    October 25, 2013

    Completely disagree. Respect, communication and honesty are needed to have a great relationship… Not space in your personal life or on social networks. Love yourself first. If you dont like the way you feel for being shut out then move on. Take your baby with you.

  3. is me self
    October 24, 2012

    dt good 4 her alu woman must search alu self an learn alu place

  4. TT
    October 17, 2012

    MAMSELLE SICK BOY ALL THINK ALLU CAN CONTROL MAN STUPES..POSTING TING ON D MAN FB

    • casablanca
      October 25, 2012

      i agree wit u tt mamzel mad

  5. Anonymous
    October 11, 2012

    When I crash all the computers, Skeritt turn off the electricity and water, no water no power no phone, no internet, go Zion for sugar cane, get some book in the liveir, some moweng, in the bushwe…light a BIG boukha…roast that and some yampea blew, drink some Red Cap and visu canne, and have some merry old time. for old time sake, then who cares about F..in Face book..girl relax…I delete both my man and face book..I coming…lets go get sue and jump in the sea..

    • anonymous
      October 13, 2012

      what u just said wasn’t call for.seriously!!!

    • Anonymous
      October 22, 2012

      you sound like a lesbo.

    • Tijhan
      May 11, 2013

      u nutta!

      • Tijhan
        May 11, 2013

        but for true, ppl need to chill over fb.

  6. UDOHREADYET
    October 11, 2012

    The most important thing here is that you realized something is off in your relationship. You and your fiancé have differences of opinion which leads to arguing because neither of you respect each other fully. Think about it. He would not block you or change passwords if he respected you and you would not embarrass and argue or search his phone if you respected him. In my opinion it’s not an issue of Facebook or trust but RESPECT. Respect begets trust which will rid you of paranoia and instill confidence. You may want to establish full respect for him and vice versa between each other prior to making a lifetime commitment. At this juncture your conversations should be about your child and the future you plan to spend together not Fakebook. Respect UDOHREADYET.

  7. UDOHREADYET
    October 11, 2012

    The most important thing here is that you realized something is off in your relationship. You and your fiancé have differences of opinion which leads to arguing because neither of you respect each other fully. Think about it. He would not block you or change passwords if he respected you and you would not embarrass and argue with him over silly nonsense if you respected him. In my opinion it’s not an issue of trust but respect. Respect begets trust. You may want to attain that respect and trust for each other prior to making a lifetime commitment. Also your conversations or differences at this juncture in your relationship should stem from planning your life together not fakebook. Respect UDOHREADYET.

  8. Grain Sel
    October 11, 2012

    This woman has some serious issues
    She is controlling,manipulative and insecure.
    Peoples like her need help,she should seek help.
    You don’t trust him because you can’t trust yourself.
    You need to give the man some room
    You should never touch the man phone, much less to post things on his Facebook page.
    Do you even listen to yourself….?
    What gives you the right to emotionally abuse the man like this,
    Women like you’re noise maker, for anything and everything and you all always promising to change your ways but you never do because in your head all men are the same,
    Your past relationship is destroying your present one right now.
    You should be happy that their is a man that will tolerate you,and even wants to marry you.Am already feeling sorry for him…
    You need serious counseling lady..
    Go see Dr. Sharma or Ms.Tina Alexander she will help for sure.
    I have a pretty good idea what this make is experiencing,I had a dose of it once upon a time.

    • somitime
      October 11, 2012

      Why would you want to go in your man phone it hurts more to see something you do not want to see . I not think u need his facbook passward all of us need to be private even if you are marred to him he need his privacy and you need yours too

    • hmm
      May 1, 2013

      AA…you know the woman personally man you have so much to say? She only posted some of their story you don’t have all the facts. Don’t attack the woman..All women have their issues and faults I’m sure you do too. So chillax.

  9. Amandy
    October 11, 2012

    Girl now is the worst time for you to be stressing about something so nonsensical, you might end up hurting yourself and the child…. I was 5 months pregnant, my fiance and i started aguing for every little thing(he got a text and i wanted to see and he refused because it was his sister texting him the information for a suprise baby shower that they were planning for me), BAM!….. We were in the middle of an argument when i suddenly felt a sharp excruciating pain, before you knew it there was blood everywhere and i started screaming and collapsed…. Up to this very day he regrets arguing with me, because he got a front row seat of his unborn baby and his wifey’s life flash right before his eyes….. So my girl, just take it easy and free up the guy…. he needs a little space

  10. Stella
    October 11, 2012

    This girl reminds me of my “ex”…. The boy was paranoid, stalking me, going through my phone and all sorts of stuff…. i deleted him from my facebook and he was mad…. but i did not care….. Girl you better grow up and see the light before you loose a good man!….. ebeh!… stupes…. Remember you pregnant, take stress and you’ll know…..

  11. Distured
    October 10, 2012

    Want to break up over what now? Facebook? Are you ppl serious?

    Facebook = EVIL.

    If any can truly “quit” face book, let me know.

    And lady and gent, don’t f-up ur possible marriage over something so trivial. Some guys like they space sometimes. Some women too. It happens.

    -truly disappointing.

    • OPTIMISTIC
      October 11, 2012

      i did quit facebook, and trust me i am not missing it one bit…i dnt see any fuss about facebook anymore, cuz its not what it use to be..right now facebook has become a place to air dirty laundry..you can quit facebook if you invest your time in something else…

  12. Anonymous
    October 10, 2012

    Pathetic woman !!!!!!!

  13. October 10, 2012

    if the man has cheated or u ave evidence that he is cheating den u shld move on wit ur life. havin baby or not…… if u guys had such a healthy relationship dr shld be no reason y u shld go in his fone secretly. fb is for hangin out n avin fun, NT 4 PERSONAL BUSINESS…. take wt u get

  14. Anonymous
    October 10, 2012

    AMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM…ANYONE HOME>>IS THAT ALL U GOT BELLLA..

  15. SDD
    October 10, 2012

    Hmmm, where have i seen this before??? Oh yes, “Why did I get married, Too?” Girl stop thinking like Angela, not all men are like Marcus and put up with it. So my advice is, if dont trust your finance now, you will not trust him when you are married, so please strongly review your actions… And if he is going to cheat, he will cheat, so having his passwords is no guarantee… SMH

    • Carla
      October 10, 2012

      I so agree!

  16. As if.....
    October 10, 2012

    :roll: Sooooo, let me get this straight:

    1. U put ur man business on FB and embarassed him.
    2. Now you vex that he not giving u his password.
    3. U still have guts coming on DNO to say when he sleeping u search his phone (stalker).

    U find you making sense??? Girl get a life, a hobby, a trade, something to occupy ur time. It is not compulsory in a relationship to give ur partner YOUR password, it’s called password for a reason. You sound like a nag.

    • firegirl
      October 27, 2012

      amen to that!! she needs to get a reality check

  17. ani
    October 10, 2012

    Ou pa honte tifi?

    Nom sala pa ready.

  18. Marcus Hill
    October 10, 2012

    Young lady your behaviour is very low and resembles someone who suffers from a lack of self esteem.

    First of all, why did you allow yourself to get pregnant if you not married?

    Then why on earth do you have to put your private business on Facebook and embarass the man?

    And as if that is not enough, you have to go and search the man’s private details!!

    What on earth were you thinking? What was going through your head?

    And now from the frying pan into the fire, you post this story on DNO.

    So you don’t believe the man reading DNO and will recognise is you writing that!!

    How could you be so Dumb!!!

    • Like
      October 10, 2012

      Self esteem and insecurities….crying over a facebook password…SMH

    • Anonymous
      November 5, 2012

      who are you to judge her behaviour, when u in d hot oil with someone u love, and u see urself doing weird tings then cme an talk on dno…..pregnant b4 marriage not the topic
      …allu too infront

  19. Tri-State Beauty
    October 10, 2012

    What are you doing with the mans’ FB or Phone Password? Married, Engaged, Single I find that people who are overly insecure always feel that someone else in their life is not entitled to their own privacy. What does having the password accomplish? Geez maybe I’m too liberal but frankly I wouldn’t want to know what another person is doing 24/7 less they invade my privacy. People need to be responsible and respectful and having a password only deepens the skill of hidding if there is something to hide. Get a hobby and leave the man alone. What you went in his phone for? You either trust or walk away, this is how problems begin.

  20. Saysay
    October 10, 2012

    Face book is for socializing, not for dramatization. Some people thing that if they pipi yellow they have to let the whole world know. Well again if no one uses facebook they will go out of business, just like my space page.

  21. (.) (.)
    October 9, 2012

    Girl CHOOPS!!!. I have been married for quite a while and I don’t even have my husband’s password for anything that belongs to him and neither does he has any of mine and we are just fine. You not even married to the guy and you want all his passwords. The man needs his space and you should allow him to have his own space and privacy. Stop being like a damned hawk and let the guy express himself freely without you peeking.

  22. dominicailove
    October 9, 2012

    u cant really block people on fb it makes no sense all u got to do is let one of his friends on fb log in and u can always see him duhhhhh ..learn to use fb and u can always make friends aquiantance on fb so they cant see ur post

    • Like
      October 10, 2012

      So true.

  23. conno
    October 9, 2012

    first of all everyone needs their privacy even you never give out your password so what he block you create a new account look for a sexy model from a magazine as your profile pic and invite him lol

  24. Smoove
    October 9, 2012

    the best thing that happen to me is to block my woman on facebook, she want to have herself in too much drama. I agree with the padna, block her self. I myself go thru enough drama with all them facebook sin.
    “oh who is that?”, “why she hugging you so?” “who is that person. why they have a photo of you on their profile. why they tagged in your photo. too much drama.

    the day i block her was the best thing. and i reccommending everyone else to do the same. some woman just have too much sin and worry about too much thing that have no consequence.

    • HONEST
      October 10, 2012

      Haha :lol: …sounds like me…I agree with your woman some of all you man too not good and as for those nasty young girls these days…I would just dash between there legs with hot pepper sauce…

      • Carla
        October 10, 2012

        True!

  25. King
    October 9, 2012

    what rubbish?????…why is it that people feel you have to give up your privacy and individuality because you’re in a relationship? Sounds like to me the young woman has trust issues that lay further than just the face book :twisted: :twisted:

  26. tie toe
    October 9, 2012

    my x and the father of my two children always tell me that no news is good news .my advice to u .you dont see you dont no

  27. Anonymous
    October 9, 2012

    that woman just NOT GOOD.

  28. !!in ur face!!
    October 9, 2012

    serves u right. ur personal life should NOT be on facebook. u are lucky dat blocking u was all he did. now there is a status update for ur fb. “my fiance blocked me”. grow da hell up n stop putting ur business out there for da world to see!! :lol:

  29. Stalker
    October 9, 2012

    Honey just make a fake facebook account then add your man to it. Simple.

  30. liz
    October 9, 2012

    face book has gotten very very personal.i know of this relationship where the boyfriend has met women on fb and dated them. went as far as getting sexually involved with strangers he just met on fb. the girlfriend never asked for his pass word or anything, she knew because he was caught in other ways and he confessed..in a situation like that, when the boyfriend is trying to re build trust in that relationship, the girlfriend has every right to have his every password. if you dont have any secrets, why hide? those are different situations.. and i think in this case the guy had his right to block her, but in some cases, password is a need to be given.

    • OPTIMISTIC
      October 11, 2012

      i have been with my bf for almost 6 years, now my fiance for about 2 months and i definitely dnt ant any of his passwords. the same way i want my privacy is the same way i want him to hve his own.. why make space for doubts when there is no reason to have any…pple need to be mature and realise that you need to be your own individual ina relationship and not what someoen elese wants you to be….i hve never once searched my man phone and never will…i just dnt see the point.. why dig dirt if you are afraid of worms. if the relationship has to sour it will by any means…..

  31. small
    October 9, 2012

    my boy friend blocked me to.

  32. Trolol
    October 9, 2012

    It’s girls like you I try to keep away from.(One night stand)

  33. assuass
    October 9, 2012

    one advise make a false name and sent a friend request lol lol

  34. Ruthine
    October 9, 2012

    Anyway i find u didnot take enough time to know him next month will give all u one year and baby already on its way.waypapa

    • Just Wondering
      October 10, 2012

      I agree 100%

    • Dominican2DBone
      October 10, 2012

      8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O yea i totally agree i reading that there i checking okay together for almost 1 year and then i seeing BAAAABY …ki sa my girl you move a little too fast dere wii the relationship still premature for ALMOST A YEAR it not even a year going on 2 but just A YEAR but anyways blocked or not keep your vybez under wraps the world don’t have to know

  35. hahaha
    October 9, 2012

    Dear bella is the best part of DNO. Too much jokes. DA men need to grow some balls and be real men. Why would anyone give his girlfriend his facebook password just so she can spy on him. This woman is insecure to the max and obsessive. I’d run away if I was the man

  36. T. Winston
    October 9, 2012

    lemme get this str8
    He’s your FIANCE
    allu not together for 1 year
    You did something via facebook which caused him to block you which means you were punished for doing something wrong and you in your all high and mightyness feel that you don’t deserve the punishment so he must be cheating…

    Strange world we live in. :-|

  37. hmm
    October 9, 2012

    drama, dram, drama!!! facebook sa la eh….people want to have their whole life story on FB…for Christ sake what happen to phone conversations again? anyway first of all the question you need to ask yourself would you like your fiance to embarrass you on a social media so for his friends to laugh at you? i guess not!…and those pple that their saying why you need password for trust me some of them not different not one bit! women too like to dig, they are the best investigators!!

    • lolol
      October 9, 2012

      lmao…you have a point

  38. Piper
    October 9, 2012

    I am a married man – almost 30 years and I do not password-protect my phone. I leave it on the counter at home, but my wife will not answer my phone when it rings. She knows the call is not for her so there is no point in checking it. As far as I know she does not go through my phone looking for god-knows-what.

    You have been with the man for less than a year, not married to him and you have all that dramma already?

  39. sayodityodit
    October 9, 2012

    As far as I see the man has reasons to block u on fb because u said u posted something about him that
    made his friends laugh at him and he felt embarassed. Facebook is a something useful but we do have to be careful of things we post on there not every aspect of our lives has to be put on there. So i understand why he blocked u and why do u need his fb password? Learn to trust your man.

  40. satified:)
    October 9, 2012

    well well girlfriend..this is just the beginning of ur sorrows. if facebook issue bring u this way, well i so sorry 4 ya. if u don’t trust u man will it will never work..u just have to come to the conclusion that ur man will b atttracted to someone out there or others out there.no matter how ugly or good looking you are it is just natural for men to cheat. it does not matter if they have the most intelligent , pretty, well shaped, money making woman, once they have a penis they will cheat. so is either u learn to live with it and protect urself when ur man come or leave ur single life. smdh. life is full of sorrow once u have man in ur life. so u decide what u want.. u can never have a man of ur own. Jesus that is my man..he takes care of me..i feel satisfied..u will only understand when u walk the road i have walked. Trust Jesus as ur Lord and saviour and he will not block u at all..People dying too fast child..live ur life for christ not for man. smh.

    • Anonymous
      October 10, 2012

      I want to agree with your statement. Men cause women to be the slots they are. Men cheat and it hurts the women so bad that they care less and do all sorts of things. But it is better for women to have a one night stand and send the men at their home than to have a man in a house and he lies, cheats and put u through all this dramma… It wasn’t meant to be so..

    • Sasha
      October 10, 2012

      You are a sad basket case…sorry but you sound soo pathetic for a christian. I understand that you have NO trust whatsoever for any man whatsoever but “as long as he have a penis he WILL cheat”???..Sorry but not all men WILL cheat. and both men and women have the tendency to cheat, not just men. and wether u beleive me or not, there are good men out there who are faithful to their wives and girlfriends. some are christians, some are notl. so while i sympathize with you for the pain that u went thru, do not spoil it for others by making such statements

      • nadz
        October 11, 2012

        You are so right!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  41. Too hard too long
    October 9, 2012

    You are destroying your relationship because your fiance blocked you on Facebook? You know why he blocked you. Try this – stop facebook for a little while. Reduce its importance in your life.

    As for this issue of having the phone password – why do people do that? Why do people feel compelled to have access to the computer, the phone, the ipod, the tablet, the facebook, the email and on and on and on? I’m not giving anyone my password. Call me all kinds of names if you want. Don’t ask for my password.

    • Nio
      October 9, 2012

      i agree 100% don’t ask for my password, if i feel like giving it to you i will on my own at my own paste, if you ask for it you will never get it! So right now FB is the head of your relationship….tisk get real woman!

    • ca mem
      October 9, 2012

      I support you on this 100%. im not giving anyone my passwords. if they happen to get one of them i changing it so fast eh.

    • two cents
      October 9, 2012

      Shate, if the the thumbs up button was there i would hit it. You right on Q!

    • Reader
      October 10, 2012

      My thoughts exactly. I can’t begin to imagine how someone can get so worked up about not having their partners facebook password. And crying too wii … and she say she is the mother of his soon to be born son. This chick needs help!

    • heshe
      October 10, 2012

      hmm…i totally agree with you! not because u in a relationship does it mean that u lose all sense of self. I am a married woman, happily at that, and i am my own individual as well as my husband, we have a very good communication and we are very good friends and none of us feel the need to have each other’s password for facebook or msn. the only password we share is our ATM and our PC at home just in case one person is absent. I have never asked for his password and he havent asked for mine. I found his facebook password by mistake one time and i asked him to change it immediately. i dont need the stress of wondering who he talking to and what they talking about, if he wants to tell me then he will!!

  42. shy
    October 9, 2012

    Ebain facebook sa la kay fea sort fea margie.

  43. baddist
    October 9, 2012

    mais sa mwe ka tan la nor…. ti femme ou hardy! wat u doin wif his facebook? wen u go on his profile ur face u seein dr? ur friends dat dr? ur opinions dat dr? strupes girl get a grip grow up, d man not cheating on u tonehh… check urself before u wreck yourself and ur soon to be marriage…. facebook? oh please

  44. Grl get REAL!!!
    October 9, 2012

    Grl you cannot be serious, what u really think Facebook is nuh. A setta ppl with too much time on their hands minding each other business and the other set putting their business out there to be minded(attention seekers)….grow sum pwell and stop having urself over that. U brought this on urself so dont act so surprised. Jeez sumtimes i wonder if Facebook have prizes for most frequent visitors…smh!

    • FB for DUMMIES
      October 10, 2012

      all they putting is pictures of their faces and not their whole body, they live for how many ppl comment on their status and like their photos like it reflects their personality. BUNCH OF FAKES!!!! I know a grl posting pics before she change her hairstyle or have a new blouse and she at her home crying hungry and doesn’t even have toilet paper to wipe !

  45. ?????????????
    October 9, 2012

    I have always said FB is for socialising and not for your personal drama’s. Young Lady learn this and I see no reason why you have to put your personal business on FB so that your Fiance friend would laugh at him. You are all over yourself and you onlythink of yourself. Why would you want to put personal things between you and your loved one on FB for the world to see. My Goodness youngsters please use FB for what it is a social network an dnot a place for swearing, cussing and drama’s. If you want drama go to drama school.
    He is right to block you because you have hurt him. You lucky you still have a relationship. Learn and move on and don’t do this again.

  46. Dat Nigger
    October 9, 2012

    You answer all your own questions.

    I’m like almost his wife and mother of his soon to be born son, why would he need to do that for? Is he cheating? Is he hiding something? Yessss obviously…..

    I let it go. I learned that if he does cheat and what so ever, it’s on his conscience. But you wouldnt want to stay with a Cheating Boyfriend.Almost Husband…..

    I feel like I can’t be with someone that does that to me, it’s like I can’t trust him. I don’t know what to do or what to think. – You;ll Have to much Issues……

    I am tired of crying and being hurt so badly. I told him to leave so many times because he said he is tired of us arguing and so on,* If he can rely on you for anything he will never leave green grass for dry grass that cannot do nothing for him…**** but he never does leave. I don’t know why he says that and when I tell him to go he doesn’t. * He Maybe says that cause it Hurts your Feelings and then you maybe let him get away with cus you cant see yourself without him.

    What do i know.. Love is complicated… But if a woman not happy and she stay with a Man that not making her happy. She is a Dam . and Man with nothing Loveeeeeee a Dam D/ca Style!!!!!!!!

  47. Smh
    October 9, 2012

    but what u want the man password like that for ? Girl grow up and move on.The signs are OBVIOUS !

  48. Sweet Carib
    October 9, 2012

    Attention:: Stalker Alert!!!!!!
    Y in God’s world do u want his fb password for??? U seem to have control issues. If I was this guy I’d leave ur …. rite away. The man needs his space!!!!

    ADMIN: No indecent language or your post will be deleted in the future.

    • Kicks
      October 9, 2012

      :lol: :lol: ADMIN, you sound like a Dominatrix, you cud turn meh onnnnn! :lol: :lol:

  49. Attitude
    October 9, 2012

    Why did you in the first place have to post anything about your relationship on fb? This goes to say that any issue between the two of you will be in public. And why do you even want the man’s password for his phone and fb anyway? Don’t you have yours? Does he have password for yours?

    Big deal, you lucky is block alone he block you from fb and not block you from his life.

  50. jerseydominican
    October 9, 2012

    just question i have for you why do you need his password for his facebook page of his cell phone,his not giving it to u doesn’t mean his cheating have some faith in ur relationship no faith u have no relationship and ur marriage is likely to fail have have faith in ur boyfriend and everything is going to be fine.

  51. mouth of the south
    October 9, 2012

    bella i agree with you to an extent…. that is everyone needs privacy… but????? if my girlfriend block me on facebook… i don’t think it should be ignored… call me marco…. marcoo meeeehhhh or marco rhoni if allu want…

    facebook is very ‘personal’ and is now mixed with people emotions… this is where we ‘talk’…. meeeennnnn peeps don’t even go out any more… dates are now on facebook and sometimes b.b messenger….

    if ur significant other block you on facebook then ask questions n get to the bottom of it….
    in her case she knows why…. cause they had an arguement or not on good terms…

    but if ur significant other block you on facebook…. then i suggest you ask questions…

    and for that call me marco rhoni or tony marco… i’ll take it for that reason lol :-P :lol: :wink:

    • October 9, 2012

      agreed!

    • Anonymous
      October 9, 2012

      MOTS man of your age should not be talking about girlfriend u should be talking about your wife,and yes i think u a marco shat.

      RP

    • Anonymous
      October 9, 2012

      agreed ok he’s not obligated to give it but why wouldn’t he want to? if you are with someone who you are ready to call your wife, what is the point of keeping secrets? Aaaahhh smh the human mind is so complex.

  52. kekeke!
    October 9, 2012

    But what is this for me na? Lol I’ve never laughed more! :lol:

  53. african queen
    October 9, 2012

    why a you set on getting the man password if he give u freely so be it everyone should have their free up space.and as a woman my self u have NO right going into the man phone,reading or scrolling.

  54. suki suki
    October 9, 2012

    Why would you post something that happened between you and your man on facebook, Don’t you guys realize what Facebook is all about, just people looking for trouble and woman with Drama, men and women that on facebook have nothing more to do with their time, Please girl, let it go, you are making a fuss over a password, Come on. He is not cheating so give it up and forget about that… it will pass..

  55. yes i
    October 9, 2012

    i agree with bella 1000%

    • weh weh weh
      October 9, 2012

      boy mamzel doh e z na.. and on bella u want to come and pass your Facebook stress then… weh weh weh

  56. hmm
    October 9, 2012

    where them stupid woman that think they have to have their man password from na?

    Woman grow a brain…YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO HIS PASSWORD for any thing!

    Are there really relationships where partners share passwords? Look foolishness!

    • Resident
      October 9, 2012

      You idiot, if they are going to get married she should have his password just like he should have hers. No secrets, they are one. So she’s not stupid. SImilarly to another comment, he could be “dating” on FB How the hell would she know?

      • Wheninrome
        October 9, 2012

        Resident, you are DEAD WRONG. She has absolutely NO RIGHT to his password unless he willingly gives it to her. In fact, it’s against the law to sneakily go through someone’s cell phone messages, email messages and hack into someone’s personal information whether you married or not. It’s called violation of personal rights. We need to stop feeling entitled because of marriage and and stop being so insecure. She may have reasons to believe he’s cheating because he blocked her from his Facebook but still that’s no real reason or grounds for it. He doesn’t have to be cheating – he just may simply be upset because she broadcasted their personal life on Facebook. In time he may come around. People need to stop making social media come between their relationship and maintain some privacy outside of social media.

      • Reader
        October 10, 2012

        Really??? I have been married for almost 10 years and my husband does not have the code to my phone, or my email or FB or twitter, or personal bank account. The only account he has access to is our joint account. Likewise, I neither have not want his passwords. The whole idea that once you get married you give up your right to privacy is just ridiculous to me.

  57. yes i
    October 9, 2012

    you hurt and crying because the man block you on facebook. good for you. who tell you to post things about your relationship on facebook for people to see. firl my advice to you is: grow up and move on. worry about bigger matters than your boyfriend blocking you on a website

    • Anonymous
      October 9, 2012

      Man it’s like these young people life depend on FB; facebook seems to be as critical an element in relationships as love itself…smdh

      He was wrong to give you his password in the first place. You too fast, I am sure there are many messages you receive that you would never want him to see..

      Grow up and give the man space.

      And, how comes is always them woman that want password?

  58. Tiger
    October 9, 2012

    Boy I really have to laugh. WHat is wrong with this Facebook generation? Allu have no sense of propriety when it comes to sharing personal information.

    You sound like a very immature woman. But for the fact you are expecting a child, I would have left you a long time ago. You need to grow up.

    If you cannot trust your man, no amount of digging will settle your mind. You are very insecure. You should seek professional help to deal with your insecurity.

    • Concerned
      October 9, 2012

      Well said! Finally someone making some sense in this fiasco… girl get a life and leave the man password alone. I think u need psycholgical help fast!

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