I have been with this young lady for a year and a half now.
In the beginning I gave her hickies and she had no problems with it.
However, recently whenever I try to give her a hickie or just talk about it, she gets annoyed or assertive and says, “NO, don’t mark my skin!! Don’t mark my skin!!”.
I sometimes respond by saying, ‘babes you are my woman, what is wrong if I mark your skin?’ but she cannot give me any sensible reason.
I’m beginning to get frustrated about that and I also have the feeling that she is cheating.
Please tell me what u think Bella
Frustrated
Dear Frustrated,
It appears to me that you want to or are anchoring your love life on hickies and I don’t think this is the right thing to do.
To people like you hickies are the physical equivalent of telling everyone you see that you are getting some, but to others it is an awkward and a kind of gross way of telling people, who don’t want to know, about your love life.
Maybe your girlfriend just doesn’t want to be parading around with some kind of trophy of your love life on her body.
Get over this hickie thing. Real love is far greater than these minor distractions.
Bella
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even i don’t like hickeys as i feel its becomes embarrassing wen someone else sees it . As it exposes your private life. love is important but not at the cost of making your partner embarrassed
Well my friend there is nothing that beats communication. I feel u and I don’t think there is any problem being insecure. I bet everyone here have been insecure about about something in their relationships. Best way u can handle this is to talk to your partner and find out why she does not like it anymore. U will be surprised that she may not be cheating at all. She’s the only one who has the answer for u. Remember change is the only thing that is constant. Communicate with your partner that will solve most of your problems in your relationship.
Bondie!…… Bot i find you not easy….. what kinda childish thing is that…. i’m nineteen an di’ve got a boyfriend but i don’t allow him to be putting no hickies on my body because i’m a woman of class and he has to respect me and himself by not letting the entire world know that we had sex recently by putting a hickie on visible parts of my body!
Beyonce said if you like it put a ring on it…not put hickie on it….
My boy just put a for king ring on d woman finger and stop soseh d girl….hicki i lil kids stuff be a man
Padna, you already know the answer to your problem, it’s got nothing to do with hickies. You suspect a ton of other things and hickies was the icing on the cake, so that’s what you wrote about. Everybody in this forum on your case about hickies this and that but that’s not the issue. Your real question was not about hickies it was about your suspicion that she’s cheating on you. The truth of the matter you think the woman cheating on you hickie or no hickie period. Women have intuition and men have instinct, always trust your instincts. Blah blah blah whatever… next!
My partner, on what basis do you think you have rights to put a hickie on this young lady’s neck?
Secondly, on whose authority are you both consenting to have sexual relations? Man’s secular law or divine law?
Thirdly my boy, you cannot get frustrated over a woman, she is not “yours.” A partner is a trust given by God, He gave stipulations on the procedures to have this woman and that is marriage. When one has a premarital relationships he is betraying that trust God has given him.
Lastly, I recommend both of you seek premarital counseling, then marry or release each other in kindness.
Well to start with your personal things people do have to know, by putting hickies on each other necks where this is visible, I find this very very disgusting to see on people bodies, and especially if you work dealing with people it can be very inappropiate to see, not professional at all, so just cut the grap….be real.
fool
well my brother nothing wrong with hickies…. if u wanna there are endless places on her body where u can put it besides her neck ….places where even if she wears a short shirt or a two piece bathing suit it will still be hard to spot by someone ..places like on the lower part of her breast , between her legs etc hidden….. if u so like seein hickies ,make her put a big one on ur forehead
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a drifter was ere 
well my brother nothing wrong with hickies…. if u wanna there are endless places on her body where u can put it besides her neck ….places where even if she wears a short shirt or a two piece bathing suit it will still be hard to spot by someone ..places like on the lower part of her breast , between her legs etc hidden….. if u so like seein hickies ,make her put a big one on ur forehead
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a driter was ere 
REALLY? WHO GIVES. IF SHE DOE WANT IT LEAVE HER ALONE. LIL CHILDISH . GROW DA HELL UP.HMMMMMM. NO DAM RESPECT 4 DA LADIES.
useless
dude insecure or something you want to leave hiki on her skin…..thats so yesteryear….chupes….LAME!! IF ITS GOOD ENOUGH ME AND YOU ALONE SHOULD KNOW….not the whole world…so classless….er one must see ur neck marked up…gosh!! if you so focused on a hiki…u not ready yet…goes to say u still a “boy”…i mean if in the flame of things one end up being marked then ok…but u not ez…smh lol
Weh papa, so many likkle boys masquerading as big men dem times. Yesterday mister start making viss man? Boy why you want to mark de woman skin? So if a next man have to eat from your plate is a likkle scratch in de corner dat will prevent him? Garcon grow up, you not a socouyant, you want to mark de person chile! Real man doesn’t leave no evidence, consider dat a free lesson.
But what comess with that nah for me there..Is that we have resort to hicky my sus. PAPA lord. well fella put a kicky on her suson nah so the mark will be covered up so that satisfy both parties you get you hicky and her sus is taken care off..whoss nuff said
lol…lol..a true
hmm well bella.. u wrong wrong wrong and wrong!! my partner d woman have another man yh.. if she had a porb she would have had a prob wit tha from the beginin .. not all of a sudden she doe want mark on her neck.. common sense tha there .. fact tha u bella might or is a woman u self .. neva know? u well biassd with issudes invloving man an woman d girl have another man ..simple as da wen all uwant a new bella check me i answer most them ? betta thna ucurrent bella does
Not with the kind of English that you write!
ya wi boy mamsel have a next man.
Bella dear that’s the best advise you’ve ever given. Young man grow up…hickies are played out bro. She’s your woman not your propriety. If you think she’s cheating on you, you need to find out and deal with it like a man.
She is becoming a woman who cares about her skin, I do not see anything wrong with the picture. Giving your girlfriend a hickey means you are breaking her blood vessels around her neck. This however can be very dangerous, for example; depending on her blood clotting factors she may be put on coumadin, thinning her blood. This can cause excessive darkening around the neck and maybe death. My point is if she do not want a hickey and you think you love her enough, you should respect her wishes.
I had to laugh.
You sound like someone with no common sense whatsoever. You’re insisting that you want to give her a hickie? What for, silly? 
To mark her skin? Some people’s skin is sensitive and mark easily. This mark lasts for a few days.
A few years ago, one summer, I attended a dance with friends. It was a long weekend. Someone whom I knew and had not seen for a long time was visiting from DA. He gave me a hug and tried to kiss me. As I turned my face away, his kiss ended on my neck. I know it was not deliberate on his part. The following day I noticed a red mark on my neck. This was a Saturday evening. Monday was a holiday. The Tuesday I had to go to work and the mark was still on my neck. It was summer and so I could not wear anything with a high neck and collar to hide it. I was concerned and embarrassed. One of my co-worker friends saw it and said, you have a hickie. I had to explain what occurred. How many people would believe my story? I did not indulge in any hanky-panky and I got a mark on my neck. I was not happy about that. I have not forgotten it. It has had an effect on me. Anyone who wants to hug me and try to kiss me, if the person is not my husband I push them away for this reason.
A husband or a boyfriend would not want to do this to his wife/girlfriend and give her a red mark on her neck, I suppose for all to see.
You sound like an immature person with no consideration for her. I am further stating that you do not even love her. If you did you would not want to do this to her. These days people want boyfriend and girlfriend, where applicable. In most cases it is not true love. This is why those relationships do not last. They are what we call it sexually-oriented. You better grow-up. If you truly love your girlfriend you will cease your stupidity and be serious. Date her and treat her with respect. No hickie!
you guys are real funny lol every one is saying they was taking there hickey, the guy is saying she was taking it all along now she don’t want it and she dose not have a reason .i think to be fear to him its his woman he knows her he deserve an explanation its call dialogue .when we comment we must not take side cause we can help make a negative into a positive.
I agree with her 100%. Why would I let my husband leave so many little blood puddles all over my neck and body? Is it just to prove to people that we made love last night? Hell no, to me it is so disgusting when you walk in to work, church meet a friend or even your children asking what is wrong.I think she is a well informed young lady with lots of class you should be proud of her instead of writing BS on DNO.God forbid what the hell do you know about love I think you are more of a bunny rabbit hop and run you one minute boy.
That thing so ugly…Black marks all over you neck?
Yark!!! It’s like a disease …
Bella you should send the police to arest mista….and make sure he put a big bottle of vaseline in his bag….he need some hicky all over…………stalk farm need some like you….
Not even 16 year old girls want man to bite them any more…
If you need to prove you did the nasty last nite…put some poir crater on you neck..poison ivy…or red ant…when my boyfriend wanted to bite my neck…..I fix him up GOOD…..TRY THAT..and when you walk down lagoon…do like yellow…say i got a hickey….I got a hickey…..want to see? jackkkkkkkk…………..
People grow and chang.Maybe she is not or was never comfortable with having hickies and did not have the gutts to tell you no. Now that she has learned you she can say no to hickies. Just accept her wishes and show her love and affection and stop thinking of putting some mark on her skin. What a you, some animal trying to put it’s mark so that other males won’t make a move?
Seriously, why are there so many comments to such foolishness!! I scrolled down to get to my comment … Hickies are classless and very teenage -ish!!
It is clear to see that there is bias in the responses to this post. Young man, it is sad but true that most times situations like this arises this is usually another man involved. I am sure you have discussed it with her, if you feel uncomforted about it then you should leave. It will hurt but leave. Most of the negative comments here are coming from women but i am sure they know………. sorry bro but you gotta move on.
Over a hickey? What if the girl happens to be someone who is neat and privsate?
hey I now come on DNO @ 10 pm and reading that..let me tell u 2night dere i nearlly die..some of my people not ez nuh..my neighbors mayb sayin dat one crazy at dat time of d night ROTFLMAO..following bloggers: DPM,Sweet(u kill me dere)mamizoo and DD ..i lego one vemin laugh dere eh…my night make
Stuppes!!!!!!!!!!!
boy on the you must put the hickie what neck you talking bout
That’s the problem with women. once they in a relationship, all the freaky things they did as a couple prior to starting the relationship, stops. All of the courting n wild stuff ends. That’s how some marriages come to an end.You ever notice married couples prior to their weddings? They act all hands in glove all kissy kissy on the road but as soon as they are married, one walks ahead of the other on the street.
mr have a problem man about hickie chups d woman doe want hickie she doe want hickie doesn’t mean she’s cheating me self doe even want my man to mark my skin smh lame niggaz !!
As per Anonymous;
Rule # 1: ‘The point is if your gyal start acting different for no valid reason then your guards need to be up.’ like dying their hair a bright diff color, wearing different perfume, going new places most important not looking you in the eyes during conversation. When she asks you to stop 1 thing stop 2 or 3 and if she doesn’t complain about the other things then Investigate, evaluate then terminate! Wish you the best, trust yourself but respect your lover.
When we are young we are sometimes foolish we would let the man plaster our skin with hickies. Well padna people has grown and no longer wants hickie to let the world know that you get a piece of wife. i use to let my boyfriend give me hickes but that were in the days before i knew that with a hickie you can get a blood clot and could get blood poison is the old blood that settling there. be a man the woman is not cheating. if you cant use your hips use your lips.
You are a vampire? Show your affection in more discreet ways. You don’t have to suck her neck fir the entire world to see!
How old are you … 14? Grow up. Sounds like this woman doesn’t want a boy. Try behaving like a man. Hickeys are for young teenagers, not men.
@ Carol Braccini
I thought of asking the same question, how old is he? The young today know more than adults did in those days.
Yes, I totally agree. That’s what teenagers do. You have to accept that people change, and look at things different. If she doesn’t want you to give her hickeys, doesn’t mean she has stopped loving you, or is cheating on you. Man, you have to grow up too !!
Be smart don’t be a retard, beat her she will learn to accept it
That thing called hickey causing alot of problems, as for me i don’t want it on me.lol lol
The woman dont want a hickie so what? You maybe try to bite her to mark her skin thats why she dont want one. Its the way you did it the last time she dont like it, too much teeth bro.
BELLA, no disrespect, bt tht does not answer the person question… wat u said u right in a way,, but if he started n she neva said anyting,, why nw she saying smeting,, thts di person question,,, now answer dat
WELL WELL LOOK JOKES ON DNO YOU ALL MADE MY DAY. I AM MY CAPTAIN YES IS YES AND NO IS NO TAKE YR MONEY AND YR LOVE GO FIND SOMEONE ELES TO HARRASSE. BECAUSE U PAY BILLS FOR HER U WANT TO TURN HER ALL OVER MAN IF U ARE WEARY TAKE A NAP AND REST UNTIL DAY BREAK.
lol what is that for me nah.anyways when i was younger my man used to occasionally give me hickies and i allowed it.however as time passed i grew up and i put a stop to it. it definitely wasnt because i was cheating. fyi my man has my phone password and he can check my calls,texts,bb,emails whenever he want to but he aint putting no hicky on my neck,not anymore. yes if he chooses to i have no problem with him occasionally putting one someplace else that is not visible to the general public but he aint putting one on my neck. trust me he has tried buttttttt he aint putting one on my neck.any man that is expecting a hickey to keep men off his woman is seriously mistaken and needs a wake up alarm.my padna there with the gwo pwell,his girlfriend may or may not be cheating on him but hella!!! its her body and she has a right to say wether or not she is going to go about her daily routine with a big red mark on her neck.my boy you do right go for a “moslem” woman. sweetie you can suck her neck from dusk till dawn no one will ever know once she put on her hijab (head scarf)but just to be on the safe side try giving her a hickey on her chin or cheek(somewhere visible to everyone else) and see if she will allow it.apparently thats how you in particular measure trust on a woman-by giving her a hickey where the public can see it. mark your territory insecure little boy.
@ sheesh man
That is a stupid thing to do and to approve of. What does it prove?
swty…a hickie is just a childish way of showing pple u’re dealing with somebody. thats classified as branding n no grown mature woman wld want to be branded in such a way. yah she liked it a yr and a half ago, but i’d assume she’s grown uo now and much wiser. i’d assume u grow up urself. she’s ur woman – put a rock on her finger and show the world she’s ur woman rather than assuming she’s cheating and wanting to mark up her skin. smh!!!
She’s cheating on u man its right in your eyes ,u should beat her
on her head alone she must come tebeh if she not already
What are you a vampire? Stupes!
I am married and I don’t want my husband putting any hickies on me! WTH… When i go to work every damn body have to know I had sex recently! Stupes
I vex wi! Man grow up!! I so hate to see a woman nicely dressed in her suit and a big damn hickey on her neck… to make it worst no ring on her finger and to make it even more worst if she shabin!
made a silly mistake wen i pressed the dislike button i totally agree with you on that one bystander
Ladies accept your hicky as symbol of sweet luv. In the Catholic tradition, Catholics get ashes on the forehead as a symbol of repentance- ashes to ashes dust to dust. A hickey is a symbol of affection kisses to kisses suck to suck. All you pokwit qui – take all you hicky with pride nuh eh eh. The girl use to come to church with her hicky and pastor told her be proud of the anointment she received from god anointed.
Lol … this is one funny letter to Bella.
If you really want to tell the world that she is taken then “put a ring,” not a hickie, on it!!
Bella with all due respect…PLEASE DON’T QUIT YOUR DAY JOB WHICH YOU WILL HAVE TO RESORT TO AFTER THIS ONE FAILS
some man really,all mista had 2 do is put d hickey on d woman breast where no eyes can see it or some other part of the body where people cya see
Frustrated; Have you ever thought that she probably never liked hickies in the first place, but only tolerated it simply because you guys were just beginning a new relationship? Just saying!
Yah that is what all you women do – pretend to be nice and dandy , willing to compromise but as soon as all you get the ring cay pool kwasey- all you never wrong, the man always wrong; no more thongs is big flour bag panty all you wearing; not even the pipe all you want to shine again; As for listening and reasoning – forget that. Is yapi yapi yapi non stop.
Sweetie if you only knew who you were talking to. By the way the ring is already there and nothing has changed. In fact things are more spicy between my man and I. Right now we’re getting ready to head out on our annual destination vacation, AIGHT!
Are you serious?
Not wanting a hickey does not mean that she is cheating. She could be messing around your head to see your actions or she may believe that you are having affairs and don’t want to be your pappy show. Likewise hickeys are thing of the past.
She’s cheating alright. Even her skin marks up with the bite, it will eventually fade. I guess her interest in you is fading too. Sorry bro.
Can’t turn a heaux into a housewife. Trust me she cheating because mine told me the same thing and then one night I swoop in her phone like an owl and guess what I couldn’t believe what I saw. I know people would say I got what I was looking for when I went in her phone but sometimes you have to let your eyes boil your peas if you know what I mean. Don’t be naive like me and listen to those people who telling you she doesn’t need a hickie. The point is if your gyal start acting different for no valid reason then your guards need to be up. At least she could tell you a reason why she doesn’t want it. If I were you I’d count my losses and just move on. She’s not worth your time. Women are unfaithful, lying and manipulative. Since the time of Adam When Eve betray Adam we were cautioned. Hickies are symbols Of love and you have every right to express that to the world. In general women are suppose to be submissive to men so who is she, a mere mortal of a man’s flesh, to tell you she doesn’t want a hickie. Save yourself the embarrassment and your pride and just call it quits. Right now I’m in the process of becoming a Moslim and occupying my real position in life. Do the same and trust me you’ll find a wife willing to cater to your needs and desires. I already have a wife to be and I’m calling on all men to leave those worldly women alone. They have fake hair, nails, eyelashes and body showing out but not a hickie to show they have a man. I guess she doesn’t want potential men to say she have a lover. Maybe her boss told her not to. Find out if she got a promotion because most women will do anything to climb the ladder of success. Anyway back to my story I found pictures of my girl sending her next lover while nude with detail descriptions of how she enjoyed their last encounter. I use to do everything for her, pay her bills, do her hair, love her, treat her right, be a source of comfort and she took all that for granted. I know you have been a good man as all men are and she is just another woman. Please go through her phone, turn on password remembering tools on her pc so you can track websites visited and email accounts. There are several private monitoring tools you can install and if you really want to find out her reason for not wanting the Hickie then te next best thing to getting a private investigator is installing small secret cameras on her or a little tracking device. You’ll really know what’s up then. I cannot trust another woman who is not a Moslem. Take my advice brother and please recognize this woman for what she is. I’m sure there are plenty women out there who will want a gickie and much more. I could go on giving you some more valuable advice But I have some things to take care of. Have a good day brother. Those people that claim you childish doing more childish things than you behind closed doors. Thank you
I sense you’re still hurting we bro, alas.
Seriously ROTFLMAO!!
Eh bien that was a gwo pwell.
You are nothing but a damn insecure stalker you need to speak to a therapist and your girlfriend need to run from you, garcon
who said hickies are a symbol of love? LMRO! what if it was a one night stand?? stupes
Damnnnn ! a hickey means that much to you? Well!
Well! Well! Did it ever occur to you that wearing a big red hickey on your neck is unprofessional and juvenile if you want to mark your territory why not just give her an engagement ring? saqway tonney? stupes man. so because I don’t want no bloody big ass hickey on my neck now I’m a salop ? the woman do right leave your a damn and you sound like you have a big gwo pwell too lmao
you just hurting from a woman`s pain but dont let that have you say things about women and moslem huh every man that go there is cause they cant find a woman so good luck with that
wow. alas poor u. and to think u got all that blows fr one woman, who likes showing skin, as a part of saying she has nothing to hide, and went on to become a muslim, where u’re entitled to have 7 wives, all of which r covered fr head to toe (undercover) hahaa. well look now u goin n get blows eh son. i hope whatever god u’re serving will c u thru.
OMG MY PADNA I FEELING SORY FOR U.. “MY PRESSURE UP THE GO PWEL ON ME”..LOL… U DONT NEED ANY HICKEY TO PROVE UR LOVE.. WHY THE HELL WOULD I WANT SOMEONE TO KNOW I HAD SEX LAST NIGHT OR WHAT I DO WITH MY LIFE. HICKEY SO CHILDISH. WHEN I WAS A LITTLE GIRL I USED TO HAVE HICKEY ON MY NECK.. BUT NOW I FIND IT JUST NOT COOL.. IF U WANT TO SHOW THE WORLD SHE IS UR GIRL PUT A RING ON HER FINGER.. MAKE HER CARRY UR LAST NAME.. THIS IS THE BEST AND ONLY WAY U CAN MAKE THE WORLD KNOW SHE IS URS… STOP THAT INSECURITY SHIT..THEM MUSLIM MAKE U PUT A RING ON THE WIFE TO BE FINGER. HOW U SURE SHE DONT HAVE SOMETHING WITH OTHER MUSLIMS. STOP BEING STUPID AND GROW UP
You must be an under cover agent after all of this….CIA for sure…guess by now your peas must be well cooked…enjoy…
To clear the misconception of Adam and Eve….Adam was not betrayed by Eve..he was just a foolish young man…first of all…God said don’t eat the apple…he did…he then had sex and was naked from then….but remember this…God said Adam where are you? he said I am naked….all the fool had to say was I am in the brushes…period..so don’t go calling ladied names…if that same question was ask to Eve she would have answered correctly….today there would be noooooo sin…and maybe you would not have the need for cell phone…and text messages…you should have fainted going through her phone…or lose your eye sight…
Ask her to give you the hickies. End of story.
Some animals mark their territory via urination, this guy does it by way of a hickie.
Mr. Frustrated have you thought of tattooing your name on her forehead?
I am surprised that woman has not dumped you for a more mature man.
dat woman cheatin..she never had a problem wit it…y all over sudden she does?! she is simply afraid dat her other man sees it..stupes..this is so clear
AS A YOUNG WOMAN I CAN TELL YOU MR IMMATURE THAT I ALSO HATE THEM THEY ATTRACT TOO MUCH ATTENTION FROM CHEEKY PEOPLE, IF THE GIRL HAS A JOB LIKE ME AS A TELLER AND HAS TO DEAL WITH DIRTY MINDED/DISRESPECTFUL OLD MEN SHE WOULD NOT LIKE THE STAMP THAT SAYS ‘YES I HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH A AN IMMATURE-JERK DO YOU WANT TO BE MY NEXT?’
Hickies are a cut off in blood circulation, those red lumps are not a sign of love but rather a rupture in blood vessels. They can even painful depending on what part of the neck they are placed.
It can be uncomfortable walking around with that on your neck, people staring or making comments. It may be that she’s growing into her own stage of maturity and sensibility hence she doesn’t need to be tattooed everytime she makes out with you.
hiclies look nice bt its nt 4 persons 2 c wen last u had sex.she is cheating on u dah.if she cant tell u why she doesnt want is all of a sudden her real man will c it nd bit her up.bella cant even advice herself
she have another man
What are you, 12??? Hickeys are so passe.
I think this is a young person writing this…. Hickeys often happen in the heat of passion and not often on purpose.. sometimes the thing so nice you don’t even realize that you sucking or being sucked so hard. But to fuss over the fact that she does not want you to give her a hickey is seemingly childish. Maybe someone made a harsh comment about it, some ppl find it ‘dirty” for ladies to walk around with big Hickeys on their necks. Try putting it somewhere where ts not so visible maybe she will let you do it then.
Bella I believe she is cheating!!
Bro Bro if she liked it before and now she nah want it you getting shafted. Try giving her the hicky down on Cletoville next day she soared but she’ll love you more .If that does not work time to get the iron panty with padlock. Yeh I said it
Change is good sometimes and maybe its time to try something new, don’t base your love on a hicky! Reasoning however validates change, and change without reason sometimes raises a lot of questions! I think thats where you’re at, if she gives you a valid reason for not wanting a hicky anymore, I believe it will foster some transparency and clear your doubts; example if it draws unecessary attention at work! a simple solution could be that she ask you to put it somewhere more discrete.
It’s important that you bear in mind that you don’t own her! she has liberty to approve or dissaprove of your actions, whether the intentions are crystal clear or not!
I personally belive that in the context of a relationship, she should give u a reason.She can’t discontinue an act of intimacy and replace it with nothing!!? Her behavior ‘might’be an eye opener for you to look closer for more signs! Peace. (Bella Bella bela! try n give some more sound advice pls. Thanks :))
Best advise ever. U should consider becoming a counsellor one day. I wouldn’t mind asking u for an advise. BELLA can take some tips from. Many things raise some doubts and insecurities in most relationships but I think communication between partners is the best transparency of all. Heads up to u.
Stupes… boy relax yourself eh what you think it is ner…is maybe where you want to put it too…de girl have to go work and everyone know you put it on her last night den. I wonder if you want her to put hickies on you…STUPES
@DD. LMFAO!!!!!
i dont like those marks on my skin..but im not gonna cut my man head off if he marks my skin..n if he likes it, now n then, y not allow it?..its not a habi..remember she never had a problem wit it b4.
I am not quite sure, and maybe your girlfriend does not know either, but i think there’s some medical/scientific scare about hickies.. as a matter of fact, it has been fatal (maybe in extreme cases)..nevertheless, don’t judge her because she does not want it anymore… could be that she has become disgusted by it, especially if she has to endure uncomfortable comments from friends and family…. I am a young lady and I detest hickies..apart from the medical scare I think my personal sex life is mine and my partner’s business only!
child behave yourself and go to school talking about hikies. what excitement is there about giving a hickie. Hickie is a woman thing and they are the onews who get excied over it. Grow up man!
I smell insecurity. We women do not need hickies all over our body just to let everyone know when last we had our “wheels greased”. Be more mature and over look these minor hurdles that you seem to be focused on.
PRECISELY MY SENTIMENTS!! You hit that wall nail right on the head and drove it all the way into the wall! I used to tell my girl friend the same thing, “don’t mark my skin or put it somewhere that its no visible in public” She got upset and started asking questions about seeing someone else…I mean COMONNNNNN!? Why is what you do in private anyone’s business? That’s not their business that’s why it is private in the first place. Alot of people here don’t see with their eyes and not their mouths. They see a hicky, they have to go around telling everyone he get it good or she get it good. It’s very annoying and uncomfortable at times. Just respect someone’s wish when they say “don’t mark my skin” and life goes on.
I always give my wife hickey but is under her foot,so one will see it lol
LOLLLLLLLLL now THATTTTTTTTTT was a helluva FUNNY ONE!!! FIVE VERTICAL THUMBS UP FOR YOU BRO! (joke or not)
Lmao. This one had me laughing out loud!
Love it!
This is real childish, don’t mark the girl skin boy, it’s a bit embarasing, people don’t must figure out that you made love on that special day.Some men eh.
so what if you are ashamed of making out why do it huh.
HAVE YOUR WHEELS GREASED BUT NO ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT IT!!!!
Bella advice!!! Chupes( De man maybe all suicidal)
Man u have the right to be concern!! As I always say if I accustom of doing something to u all this time and u never complaint and all of a sudden u have a problem with it!! hmm U need to be concern my Bro and hire your Private Investigator!! Don’t give benefit of the doubt!! Investigate your self!! U might be wrong but then again One way u can no for sure!! ALL the best Bro!!
over the year and a half she probably just matured a little and realised that obtaining a hickey from her partner is really quite juvenile (and on the medical side, not a good practice), i mean who needs an area of stale blood on any part of there body to show that they are in a loving relationship. wise up my brother and look for creative ways to show your girl u love her…
CHEATERS WILL BE IN D/A SOON
MAN UP , DO YOU THINK THAT A HICKY MEANS LOVE?WHY SUCK SOME ONES SKIN UNTIL IT TURNS RED THEN BLUE AND BLACK TILL IT CLEARS OFF?
THIS YOUNG LADY IS RIGHT ABOUT IT,,,SHE WANTS HER SKIN TO BE CLEAR NOT LIKE A SKIN AFTER AN ACCIDENT…MAN UP …
my sentiments exactly…hickies are a thing of the past when we didnt kno any better!
I am a woman who is faithful to my boyfriend but don’t want any hickies, reason being it attracts unwanted attention and doesn’t look appealing to me. Barring no hickies on my skin I express my love in a multitude of ways and he does the same. Some women tolerate hickies on areas that are not visible to the public’s eye. It is important to note that hickies are caused by broken capillaries (tiny blood vessels) under the skin.
Educate them my sister! That’s all they really need. EDUCATION!!! Some people are wayyyyy too ridiculous in life!
Then i don’t think that is healthy.
On a related matter, another maiming practice some men like to do is to bite your nipple like its a frigging chew toy. No hun, thats not sexy, Its painful. Making love to my man should not be hazardous to my health.
Hahaha. I definitely second that. Nipples are sensitive, men. It was made to be sucked not chewwed or pinched painfully.
boy yu iz a jack, iz not on her neck to suck an give her hickies jack
I hate seeing hickies on women. I find them disgusting. Why would you want everyone to know that your boy/girl friend kissed you so intensely that he/she gave you hickies. That’s your private business. Grow up and stop that childish behavior
Bell as always your missing the point behind the issue.The guy states that the girl had no problem with it before and that now she does. any logical person would wonder why. and he is right to wondering why all of a sudden she don’t want it, is she afraid that someone will see it.
which is a logical question.
I will simple say to you my friend, the fact that she does not want a hicky anymore does not mean she is cheating but the fact that you are so adderment on giving her one means u are to insecure. this is not a peace of land that you can steak your claim on. if you are with someone that u deep don’t cant truly trust. My friend its time to move one.
Good point here too, another point is that it could be the discomfort it causes now is more than it used to be.
It could also be depending on who she is and her way of life now it is becoming too annoying.
It could be that something in her life changed like a new job were everyone minding everyone business or moving in with some religious family who say that “a man should not get intimate in that way to a woman till they are married”.
And the list goes on.
That’s where COMMUNICATION comes in in a relationship! I tell my female friend that all the time. Communication is key to a successful relationship…friendship or otherwise. If you don’t communicate then you don’t know what’s going one people!
My thoughts exactly. You and your woman should be able to communicate. YOu know some things become annoying the more you do them? Maybe you treated her differently so she overlooked the petty things. Maybe that has changed now and the little things you do are getting on her nerves. Just saying, whatever the reason, y’all need to communicate.
That is a sign of weakness…you should not have to prove to others that she belongs to you….and in other words…you no vampire, she should have stopped you the first time…do you have any idea how embarrassing that is to a woman? maybe she should put a hickie on your nose…..even better bite it off….and make you whistle when you say I love you..you are a big fool…booboo..
Lol boy u have kicks, if she don’t want hickies she don’t want it, that does not mean she’s cheating (could be), besides, some women are very protective about their skin, relax yourself and give her what she wants or else you will lose her over a hickey
yep you get it right because she lie to some other man and she told him she single so now no marking of the skin or he will see keep pushing the subject and you will find out the reason and hey aldo you dont have to mark her to prove that she is your woman but still if thats how u want to show love go ahhead some men do it to say she have a man that dont bother a man if he just want some and not commitment
You want the whole world to know she was taken then, boy chill your soul.