I need your advice on something. Three years ago I met this incredible man. He was funny, handsome, caring and understanding and great in bed.
We started out as friends and inevitably fell for each other. We spent two years and some months in what I would call the best relationship, but there is a twist. I was in a relationship and he was in a relationship and it was beginning to get complicated because we paid each other more attention than our significant others.
Eventually jealousy came into play, we broke up and he got married, claiming that he got married because he wanted to forget about me.
It was more than a year since we broke up and we were not speaking to each other. Almost a month ago he started contacting me telling me he misses me. And now we speak to each other every day. We are careful what we say to each other but the feelings are definitely coming back and I am forcing myself to control it.
But I’m scared that when we do meet I will not be able to control it. We know each other better than anyone and I cannot afford to fall into that web. Now that he is married makes it worse.
Please help.
Falling fast!
Dear Falling Fast,
I think you are definitely playing with fire here. Things have changed between you two because now he is a married man. Too many times we have young ladies destroying married couple’s relationships on the premise that the guy used to be an ex or something like that. If he was really in love with you, why didn’t he marry you? This whole thing about he got married because he wanted to forget you is a nonsense.
You should avoid this guy at all costs. Don’t fall into his I-miss-you trap. If you know you won’t be able to control yourself in his presence, just stay away. If you do this you will be saving yourself a whole lot of emotional trauma in the future.
Plus, you would not like the idea of knowing you’re contributing to the breaking up of a marriage.
Bella
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Gosh, what do you expect us to say? that cheating is wrong and that is even worst if he is married? That he never really loved you, and just wants to have sex with you and leave you again? maybe spend one more year without even saying hi?
Or do you want us to lie and say that is amaziiing, and “go for it, girl!”.
Sorry, you are not gonna hear this from me.
You are a cheat, and are after a married man, you know this talks will lead to no good. he is more at fault than you, because he is married (don’t know if you are, you mentioned you have a partner…) your OHs are the poor ones in this story. you should be ashamed of yourself and stop talking to him before you get deeper in this shit.
I have a loving man for a husband, we have an amazing life together, in bed and out of it. if you are with the right person you dont need anyone else.
so neither you or his wife are the right person for him it seems, as he cant be with just one of you. Oh wait, he can sometimes. WITH HER.
you should be ashamed.
Dear Falling Fast,
Are you sure he is only missing you?
Dear Falling Fast,
Even this man got divorced, and married you, he probably will miss some other women in his life, including his wife too!
some us women always get trapped by what our so called men tells us. the men always says things to us that may seems to comfort us.Especially if we act foolishly. PLZ ladies be on ur guard
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Girl give the man de thing.Don’t give it to dem woman,god don’t like that.
where is his wife in all this
Somewhere out there blissfully ignorant to what is going on as usual
All those talking bull shit calling man/woman names, allu doing the same shittttttt until allu get caught..
it seem like those who confess are sinners/salop and those who never confess or get caught are believers…..you people are too hypocrite……95% of men cheat. and lately 85% of women cheat..and why not…love is where you find it, when you can’t fine love at home…..loving someone no crime….girlfriend love as much as you can..some people never got the chance to experience true LOVE…..
Yep You go girl You certainly make a hell of a lot of sense smdh…their love was so true that he stopped speaking to her for a whole year then married someone else to forget her WOW
that is your idea of experiencing true love I feel truly sorry for you. 
You are an IDIOT 
You a**hole..didn’t YOU read the article you big baboon…..SHE HAD HER MAN HE HAD HIS WOMAN…..SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH COMMITMENT… JUST SOME PLAIN SWEET SEXXXXXX, SHE SHOULD HAVE WASHED AND DRIED HER MOUTH THEN……. THROUGH THE TOWEL….NEVER START SOMETHING IF YOU CANNOT FINISH IT…..THEY WERE BOTH CHEATING….DID HE AS HER TO WALK AWAY FROM HER MAN TO BE WITH HIM?……..
DID I STRIKE A NERVE, YOU NEVER EXPERIENCED TRUE LOVE EH…..
WHO IS THE IDIOT….THE MAN/WOMAN WHO NEVER EXPERIENCED LOVE! AND THAT’S UUUUUUUUUU..
Dear Falling Fast
Respect yourself, please. The guy made his choice and by extension, has chosen the consequences. Allow him to live with both. Do not allow him to use you to make his wife jealous. Do not feel flattered by his sudden interest. He obviously has no respect for you. Can’t you see that? Control yourself!
Although you have not acted on your feelings, just note the crass comments thrown at you by some other commenters due to your simple request for help. Respect yourself! respect yourself! Respect yourself.
If you cannot do without a partner, find someone with whom you are compatible in a wholesome way…not by breaking up a family.
@Muslim Always Assalaamu Alaikum
Peace
Walaikum salam
MUSLIM ALWAYS GO SACRAFICE YOUR SELF HYPOCRITE HELL IS WHERE YOU BELONG .
i always say follow ur heart, but my girl in this situation..he married someone else a yr after u broke up, nevr spoke within that time, married cuz he wanted to forget u..oh plz!!!did he ever miss u within that time? nonsense i say!!! swty if u just want to have some fun, cuz obviously dats what d man wants, go ahead. but if u putting ur heart in in, forget it cuz i doubt his heart will be in it. n for all of u calling d woman names, im sure u, or ur frnd, or a family member have done d same thing so ease up on d woman.
d heart is a hard thing to ignore
@ dhestini
i so totally agree with you.. i read the story i mean yes its a dumb move on the young girls side to even contemplate the possibilities of getting back with this man but OMG I AM ASHAMED TO CALL MYSELF DOMINICAN AFTER READING THESE DISTASTEFUL COMMENTS LEFT BY SOME DOMINICAN. we need to remember the (www)WORLD WIDE WEB people all over the world are accessing this site and here we have a lady with matters of the heart asking for advice and degrading names cannot done.. ewww… the responses are even worse than the situation. i hope she does not read these comments.. because if she was a salop she would not be fighting her feelings.. young lady my advice to you pray.. and the right one will come along. too often our hearts put us in positions and situations that we need to fight to get out of.. and my god SOME OF YOU MARRIED WOMEN LEAVING THESE COMMENTS UR HUSBANDS SHOULD DIVORCE YOU ALL FOR YOUR HORRID TONGUES. thats why they go out and cheat, u all are to hostile..
WOW like people from around the world don’t do and call each other worst names. Stupessss you so damn ashamed you cannot keep off the dno website
Juice !!!!!!!!????????
HE SAYS HE MISSES YOU BECAUSE YOU ALLOW HIM TOO! WHY TAKE POISON AND SAY IT’S MEDICATION YOU KNOW BETTER…
ohoh…WHO AM I to talk!!!!! we are not on the same boat…..cause telling you what to do does not mean it is the right thing for you…….
distance and time could help…..
My sister my advice to you he is a married man.Get over vain imagination possibilities that form within the spirit of your mind.God gave you the ability to see” all thing thats why stan understands how God created you he will use ignorance of GOD WORDS AGAINS YOU.What God have joined together, let no man or woman separate;.
“Jealousy came into play” of course it will, what the hell you expect ? Total Trust? You were a side fling, booty call whatever people call things like you those days. “He married to forget you ? lmao where were you in timbuktu? If my memory and love experience serves me well people don’t marry other people to forget other people
You are a damn ass and I am ashamed and embarassed at your level of stupidity in other words “ou toh sort” If you know what’s good for you leave the person husband alone salop
sad sad young lady you should stay away from this man he left married someone else so why would u want yourself to be hurt all over again,his married has a wife,you mention that u and this guy never spoke for a while,i would ask one question why call me now you need to leave me alone and enjoy your married life.
STUPESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
AND SO WHO CARES NOT ME FOR SURE?????????????????
Some women are so stupid! The man say he miss you that doenst mean that he wants to be with you again..you never mentioned that he say he want to be with with you again all you say is that you want him back..Stay out of the people marriage all you too SALOP..the man did not want you that is why he marry the woman that he really love..STOP PLAYING SECOND FIDDLE and go and find your self a single man…As a married woman i am tired of reading these STUPID letters from these loose women trying to break up marriages…Yes i went through the same with my husbands exes and guess what after he cook..y they a couple times he still left them..GROW UP LADY!!! BECAUSE THE MAN SAY HE MISS YOU THAT DOSENT MEAN HE WANT YOU…SALOP
@Jailbird
You must be really a jailbird and keeping company with them.
likewise what comes out of their mouths and their attitude including what comes through their fingers to the keyboard and posted on Websites.
Why are calling the lady a “S….?” Why are you insulting her? Are you better than her?
If you call her such a derogatory name, then many women who have also done worst qualify to be called this name. In any case we should never use such words to people and on Websites. Our writing tells who and what we are.
I do not see that she qualifies to be one, as you called her as if you are a righteous person. Righteous/perfect people use respectable words. There was no need to use that language.
Why are you using such a filthy language on this Website?
Could you not use a better word and a dignified one?
Why can you not be respectful when you write? Consider that other people, also children will be reading it.
In any case your husband was/is a flirt. I wonder if he has got over his flirting with other women?
There are men who are married and who are stuck in that marriage for certain reasons which adults should know.
We are who and what we are and what comes out of our mouths, comes out from our heart and mind.
Just as people are judged by the company they keep and also the people they marry,
Have you no love, compassion and consideration in your heart?
She was in love with the man. They disagreed and he left her to marry another for whatever reason. It is not impossible that he is unhappy in the marriage and may even want out of it. He is not the first and will not be the last.
He said that he misses her. His words could be interpreted in different ways, that he wants to be with her, wants to see her and wants to make love to her – all in one.
In any case some men marry the wrong women and vice versa. Everyone makes mistakes. They think they are in love when it is really infatuation.
Some people do not think beyond that marriage is a serious matter and to be taken seriously.
The next time you write be respectful and of the other person’s feelings. Keep out those filthy language.
You want God to be compassionate, merciful and forgiving to you? Then as Our Lord Jesus Christ said: “Go and do likewise” to others. Watch your language!
@Truth, love and Justice lay off the woman’s case, who do you think you are to jude Jailbird ? I find you too damn perfect always on the website with your long, boring sermons maybe you should write your own bible stupesss I agree with Jailbird the woman is a SALOP.
u seem to take that one personal wii,,, cuz u know ur hussy did it b4,,, it just could be him the woman talking again lol……..
Gator – alligator – certainly took it personal. The truth always hurts. It is the pot calling the kettle black.
Could very well be her husband and unhappy and frustrated too.
Those who find sensible writing boring, you know where they are coming from and how illiterate they are. They lack love and patience too. They do not appreciate what is good and the good things in life and what life has to offer.
We must be fair and just and speak the truth. It is our duty to do so.
The woman wants advice and not insults and to be called derogatory names. It is not fair.
There are some people who think they are more perfect than others. As time takes care of everything, time will tell for them, sooner than they expect. Woe to them.
so the woman loose, but the man not loose cuz he want to stick his thing in her too. we too like to put all the blame on the woman wen the men just as responsibel. we want to soutiweh our men and blame it on the women THATS WHY THE MEN WILL GO AND LOOK FOR THOSE WOMEN. cha man
the man did not write for advice from bella the woman did so yes she is under attack for being not only a SALOP BUT A STUPID SALOP
lol… but u take that one to heart.wwat happen your husband they want to take man?
lol
i feel very embarrassed reading this. “He got married to forget you” oh plz! and your thinking of getting back with him? Woman, you’re a disgrace and insult to the women race!
ha ha ha ha… wow.. they really say when think you have it bad someone out there has it worst than you… girl friend follow ur heart… and not your mind. remember one thing.. he is married if u in it for the sex then so be it.. enjoy it!
@ nubian
You are correct about that some people have it worst than others. The only thing is they do not know it and never consider it or some will not face the truth.
When we hear and read the stories of others, we should realize how fortunate we are and how much we are spared from such dilemmas.
Everyone is undergoing some sort of problem and suffering.
Those who take it to the Lord in prayer will be consoled and will be able to cope with it or eradicate it or resign themselves to live with it and without being miserable and unhappy.
My mother always said never envy others.
There is an Indian saying: “Never judge a man (woman) unless you have walked two moons in his moccasins (shoes).”
Those who call her derogatory names are the worst ones.
It is said, “If we have nothing good to say, say nothing.”
It is obvious that the lady wants advice and not insults.
Everyone has a life story and a story of their life to tell. If they were to write a book and tell it all others would be surprised and shocked. Many hide behind a veil of tears and also fears. Therefore, human to human, we must always be compassionate. This is my principle.
‘but there is a twist. I was in a relationship and he was in a relationship and it was beginning to get complicated because we paid each other more attention than our significant others.’
He missing the BOOTY CALL session and not U. It is what it is stop fooling yourself.
This woman love this man,no matter what u all say she will give it up.That’s the way it is. Jesus and Allah have nothing to do with it.
I was in the same situation. After he got married i got married. He have @ kids and i have 2 kids but we are still in love with one another. Right now we are both in the process of getting a devorce so that we could be together. The sad part about it is our innocent childrean that are affected,but sometimes u have 2 do what u have 2 do.All i could say to u is please pray about it.
Pray about it?! You think GOd will tell her it’s okay, that was he way of leading her down a path that he condemns?! I’m no Christain (not even a one day) but I have to tell you to leave God and pray out of your foolishness!
@ Reader
You, too, make me laugh.
On occasion, there is something funny to laugh at.
I hope, led by the Spirit of Truth, I will inform you, the person meant “Pray about it”. My instinct informs me that this does not mean to pray to God, to commit sin and be with a married man. I am certain this is not what the person meant.
Christians will always state: “Pray to God” for in all things we are to pray to God and think God.
Advising someone to pray means for their enlightenment and/or to remove a problem or to cope with it, whatever it may be.
Since you said that you are not a Christian, are not a godly person, I do not expect you to be enlightened about that.
Christians know that God does not condone sin but God knows the reason why people get married. He also knows if those marriages are valid whether performed by a Priest or Pastor. They are only associates.
God who knows, sees and hears all things blesses from on high. Since God knows the hearts and thoughts of people and their motives, we do not know if He blest that marriage or not. Do you comprehend this?
If people marry for the wrong reasons, God knows it. Those people should know it too. Granted, some people make mistakes. We must give them the benefit of the doubt especially if we do not know the reason why they got married in the first place. God knows if their intentions were genuine when they took their vows!
I always say we need to think beyond and not on the surface. Too many are doing that which is why they make unbecoming comments and criticize others as dictators on this Website.
Now, you have stated that you are not a Christian. My advice to you is to pray to God to enlighten you that you may become a Christian.
Consider Heaven or Hell. Heaven for the believers who also obey God’s Commandments and His Will, by practicing the faith and performing good works, cheerfully and tirelessly in Jesus’ Name. It is called “Workers in the Lord’s Vineyard”.
Hell for those who renounce God, refuse to acknowledge Him as Creater and Ruler of the world and to worship Him. These are His enemies while on earth for failing to do as mentioned.
It is said that God does not talk to His enemies. People will turn to Him willingly. Then He will talk to them and answer their prayers.
I do not wish Hell on any one. For me, I pray to God to preserve me from the fires of Hell.
We Christians are obligated to pray for every one especially unbelievers as you that you may not perish.
Consider that when we die we will stand before God to be judged. Some people/souls will be saved for Heaven. They will be elated. Others will condemn themselves to Hell by their attitude, the manner in which they live, devoid of God’s blessing and graces. This is mortal and spiritual food for thought.
I pray that God may enlighten you accordingly.
May God bless you!
you a just another salop trying to break up another marriage and in your case not just another marriage but two marriages..you are hurting two sets of lives with your nastiness.Your children and your husband are suffering and so is his children and wife. If you were getting a divorce because you had problems in you marriage that did not involve another persons husband then i could say do it but you are solely doing it because you are a HEARTLESS SALOP..stay out of the man marriage..REMEMBER WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND I HOPE GOD PUNISHES YOU A HUNDRED TIMES AND I HOPE THAT YOU SUFFER JUST AS YOU ARE MAKING THE OTHER WIFE SUFFER..YOU ARE JUST ANOTHER SALOP
@ same situation..eh?!!!!woman u watching too much Lifetime TV papa..sa sa yay? wait still.
I’m still trying to figure out why are some grown men so naive. That bull about missing you, and always thinking of you is so yesterday these days, that I don’t understand why some women fall for it! Fir the love of it, that’s the most popular line to get giggy, and it’s upsetting the way they play on other people emotions. Girlfriend, kick mr married man to the curb! If he wasn’t married, it’d b different alright. But seeing he left you, got married to forget about you… now he miss you?!! Give me a damn break!! Now it’s your turn, let him know that karma does exist. Find yourself with the one who loves you, don’t want to forget you, and miss you when you are not around. but surely let this man know his time has passed. Remember you can’t turn back time once it’s lost.
I hope other young women take this as an example to learn something very vital here.
The heart is the strongest muscle in the body. We can’t control what it feels. Thats where morality and ethics comes in my dear. I pray that you will see the best answer for the situation.
at least a sensible comment
my girl man always comes back with their i missing you story… a whole bunch of bull if you loved me so much and couldn’t leave without me y u go marry someone else… you’re the side excitement he’s married was always bored with his current woman but he trusted and wanted to give her the life he wont give u cause he knows you might do the same to him that you doing to the man you have in your life now…
tell mr. find himself a new flame cause this one is watered down… you don’t need that drama in your life.. you deserve better start believing that… and consider being frank with yourself if your current b/f is not satisfying u in love sex or watever else think you might want to walk out of it instead of constantly horning him…
I would never marry a woman who cheated on her man, even if the other man is me. Once you cheat, it means you can do it again. In fact it becomes easier every time you do it.
Lady, the guy could not trust you, that is why he did not marry you. No guy (even a cheating dog) wants to feel his wife would cheat.
Yeah Do So nah Like So
@ Falling apart: Leave this married man alone, conquer your feelings. If this man was a muslim and he could deal with two wives justly he would be able to marry you. However, our society is a hypocritical society. You are in the situation now, you cannot be with the man you love because of our selfish ungodly society.
I say to you young lady, learn about Islam, come to Islam, it’s the only way for your salvation. Read about Islam. The prophet Muhammad said, “Every jew or christian who heard of me and rejected me, let him take his seat in the hell fire.”
I know I will get many thumbs down and negative responses but so were the prophets and righteous people of the past, they were scorned, ridiculed and scorned upon. Every single person who read this and do not act will have to account for the evidence they rejected or were negligent of.
O my Dominican people, do not be fooled by the Illumanati, zionist media, they are masters of deceptions and lies, Islam is not what they said it is, the same way they demonized African people is the same way they are doing to Islam. O falling apart, I ask you to reflect, take this spiritual journey now to worship Allah/God alone without any intermediaries or mediators. Make your worship pure for Him, it’s the only way to have true contentment.
http://www.whatsislam.com
http://www.islam101.net
http://www.whyislam.org
i heard islam is a cult..
Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. Despite all the lies and propaganda people are coming to realise that Islam is the alternative for man’s problems. Most of the reverts to Islam are women…Think about that before you yap foolishly.
Muslim, please do not make me laugh.
You do think that Islam is the best, eh? You will find out one day.
Know that, whether you are Islam or not, a man is entitled to ONE WOMAN AND TO MARRY ONE WOMAN. Not any more.
It is the Law of God that they a man marry one woman and vice versa.
Those who have more than one woman are denying other men the privilege of loving a woman and marrying her.
The Greek women in those days (don’t know if it is still the same in this so-called modern era) marry a man. When he died, they would remain in mourning, wearing black for the rest of their lives. They did not get married again. They were (are) faithful and true to their husbands. This should apply to every woman.
Every man who marries should marry one woman and be faithful to their vow, “In sickness and in health, for rich or for poor, ’til death do we part” and they should treat each other respectfully – humanely.
Till death do we part- so why stay in mourning after death? analyzethis statement…
You hypocrite, why not remove the beam from your own eyes, 1 Timothy 3:1-15 commands the priests and bishops to get married, yet they refuse to follow their scriptures and it’s the little boys bomzie paying for it!
You forget to mention for better or for worse. Well I’m not marrying for worse, I’m marrying for better…
ALL OF US HAVE THOUGHTS.THEY CAN BE GOOD OR BAD BUT THOUGHTS ARE ONLY INGREDIENTE WE USE TO MAKE DECISIONS .IF YOUR THOUGHTS ARE CARNAL, THEN CAST THEM DOWN. IF THEY ARE POSITIVE, FEED THEM.
Muslim_always i can’t believe you sent me visiting those website, but i say NO..im covered under the blood of Jesus Christ. I will not let ALLAH a.k.a Supporter of Holy Wars conquer my soul. I’m blessed! my sweet Jesus will continue taking care of me.
ps. I wasn’t impressed by any thing from these sites.
I don’t believe you visited and actually read anything from these sites. You maybe took a quick browse. That’s what illiterates do, they lack comprehension skills so they bray like donkeys.
You covered under blood? Jesus will reject your false worship. “In vain do they worship me.”
One has to worship God in spirit and truth, not blood, that’s a vampire way of thinking, very backward like the Mayans and Aztecs who believe in human sacrifice, what pagan gibberish.
MUSLIM ALWAYS ANY TIME YOU MARRIED MORE THAN ONE WIFE ITS IS WORSE THAT MEANS YOU NOT HAPPY THATS SIN OF ADULTERY.
Francis even a monkey can type more intelligently than you. Your statements are so silly.
Why do you believe in “adulterous” prophets then? Abraham, David, Jacob and so many of them practiced polygyny so why are you supposed to believe in them?
No Francis there is a difference between adultery and polgyny. Learn that.
So much hatred in your tone.
Your comments confirm the comments in the videos of Muslims who despite risking being Murdered by public stoning have come to the truth
http://www.descendantsofabraham.org/
You need to stop making these so called holier than thou people get to you
they are nothing but a bunch of ignorant hypocrites… Their pastors sweating profusely jumping up and down screaming hell and damnation at the top of their lungs and screwing the wives and young daughters of their churches all in the name of Christian counselling Am I correct ? Their so called priests who take a vow of chastity and total dedication to Christ sodomize the innocent little boys for years undetected. They piously go to church every day with their Bibles under their arms and busy bad talking their neighbours and meddling into affairs that don’t concern them. Some of them have even claimed to be filled with the Holy Spirit so called “speaking in tongues” and what do they do ? Have the most dirt under their beds 
Muslim believe me you and them know what I’m saying is true !!! So
Tell them to Go on with their Bull Shit hypocrite selves…
Jahmilla and you are absolutely right
MUSLIM ALWAYS GO SACRAFICE YOUR SELF HYPOCRITE CORRUPT YOUR MENTAL MIND YOU NEED TO CLEAN .AND BE BORN AGAIN YOU NEED THE BLOOD OF JESUS . STAN IS WAITING FOR YOU IN HELL HYPOCRITE.
Falling fast don’t allow the Devil to use you to destroy a married. Leave the man alone he married for crying out loud!!! If he wanted you, he would have gotten married to you… don’t be fooled…
my dear would you have like your hubby to secretly steering up feelings with another woman and how would you react to find out he is calling another woman daily. You need to tell him stop calling you also his wife would not want him to be with exfriends. would you. If he really loved you, you would have a ring on the finger and not be the thing on the side. Have some respect and cut all strings off. donot be his booty call and ruin your life, then no one will marry you.
love yourself.
Oh and breaks that falling now now now before u fall hard and hurt yourself and others.
You need to cut all ties with this man and ask him not to contact you. He is just trying to play with your heart. Is he talking about leaving his wife? If not all he is looking for is a side thing.
I think you should end the converstation with him ASAP,it will only lead to trouble. He is married now bottom line (recently married at that). Forget about him and move on. Plenty fish inside the sea. Respect his marriage, think about his wife, you may have something way way better waiting for u. P.S that i miss-u-crap is i want to get in ur pants. I’ve heard hear that too much in my life.. I miss u easy to say.. the fact that he marry his wife should be the action that speaks louder than his I-miss-u
BELLA BELLA …IT ALWAYS TAKES TWO TO TANGO…WHY DO YOU SAY YOUNG WOMEN DESTROYS MARRIAGES? I’M AN OLD LADY BUT I CAN TELL YOU THAT IF A MAN KNOWS WHAT HE REALLY WANTS IN LIFE HE WILL TURN EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WAY…DON’T FORGET THAT MARRIED MEN ALWAYS TELL YOUNG WOMEN THAT THEY ARE NOT MARRIED; THEY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THEIR WIVES AND THE FAMOUS I’LL GET A DIVORCE SOON…
Dumb dumb if he love u he would have married u instead of the other woman think about that
uh oh it started off with deception Falling Fast it ends on deception! You both were cheating on your partners! He married someone else because he was realistic you were a booty call and if you could do this with him, he felt you would do it with anyone else.(Cheaters rule 53)everything esle is garbage.
Leave the man alone, let his marriage flourish and work on your impulses and steering your life in a direction of positivism where you can find love and meaning in your own relationship, but start with self, because you need to love yourself first so that you can teach others, how you want to be treated. Here’s a hug girl and leave the man alone! You need not act on emotions, we all have impulses keeping them in check is called self control.