I’m in dire need for a Woman in my life. I hesitated before writing to you about this, because I didn’t want to seem needy and desperate, which is quite the contrary. I’m happy being Single, but there’s times when I’m in need of companionship and just a close friend to talk to and relate with besides the usual friends.
I’m 24 years old, well built and holds a good job. So far I’ve only had one relationship in my life, which didn’t lasted long because my partner wasn’t mature enough for a commitment.
My real disadvantage is that I’m Shy at first encounter and also I’m not the type to approach first, I’ll stare, but I always happen to take an age to make a move. So far the Girls that I’ve felt attracted to or interested in are either taken, married or already has their eye on someone. Also I’ve realized that all the good women out there are dwindling.
If there’s any advice or direction you can provide, to my cause, I’d be grateful.
In need of a Good Woman.
Dear In need of a Good Woman.
I will first start by saying that a good woman is hard to find and while I understand that your hormones may be jumping like a disco, you’re still young and don’t worry she will come around. When miss right comes around, all the shyness that clustered your speech will disappear and you will be surprised to hear the sweet talks that would be coming from your mouth.
You are smart, have a great job and even well built-and even if you didn’t mention it, I am sure you’re cute too. So relax, enjoy life, go out, have fun-Miss right could be just around the corner. Don’t sweat about it…It will happen.
Bella
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Dear In need: I take your letter seriously. It takes courage to write for help with such a personal matter. Your letter was posted several years back so by now you may have already found Miss Right. But there are many others out there who are still waiting. I am writing for anybody who might find something helpful in my letter. May I offer a few pointers? Thank you! I knew you’d say yes. (1) You need to concentrate on BEING the right person rather than on FINDING the right person. Look at yourself. What do you see that you don’t want to find in the person you hope to marry? This is a good time to work on any issues that could hinder a beautiful relationship from blossoming. (2) Understand that “like attracts like”. It happens even when we don’t know it is happening. People just click with others like themselves. So you need to consciously (knowingly and intentionally) start BUILDING youself into the kind of person you want to be with by being honest, caring, and helpful. (3) You should begin going to – and spending time at – the kind of place you might meet the type of woman you’d like to spend the rest of your life with. For me as a born again Christian I WANTED to be with other believers. I didn’t go because I was looking for a wife (I wasn’t). I went because I wanted to be with other Christians. But more so I wanted to worship God and hear the Word of God preached. I was only nineteen when it happened. One Saturday evening after a power packed service of singing, clapping, and shouting the praises of God (you’ve probably guessed that we’re Pentecostals) somebody introduced me to Sarah – an incredible young lady – who was there for the same reason I was, to encounter God. I was totally blown away! If Sarah and I are spared and the Lord has not come (check out 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17) on April 20, 2013 we will celebrate fifty glorious years of marriage. Now maybe church isn’t your cup of tea. You know best the kind of woman you’d like to meet. You decide! All I’m saying is if you go where they are you have a better chance of meeting one. (4) I have been told that it helps in a really big way to be sincerely interested in people. To get somebody’s name is a starter. But that person will be impressed if you treat her like an important person. You do this by trying to find out more about her. So you’ve just been told her name is Susan. Don’t say “Nice to meet you Susan.” The last person told her that and it went nowhere. Surprise her! Say “Where are you from Susan?” If she says she’s from another country you say, “How long have you been here?” If she’s just visiting find out the purpose of her visit and how long she plan to stay. If she’s a student ask about her education. If she’s working ask about her job. Don’t ask all the questions at once. But as time goes on show an honest interest in her family, her religious beliefs, and her opinions without arguing. (5) Be a person of good character. Remember we draw to ourselves whatever we are. Two losers do not a winner make! The one single thing a woman looks for in a man more than anything else is honestly. She will soon know from the things you say and more so from what you would NOT do if you are the kind of man she wants to trust her future with. A man of good character honours marriage and he knows that sex belongs only in marriage between a husband and his wife. When you build a marriage on this foundation it will last as long as life itself. (6) In need, be encouraged! I haven’t seen any recent statistics but everything I read and hear causes me to think there are probably more lonely women out there than men. Many have been disappointed, betrayed, and hurt. Unfortunately, some of these would not make good wives until first they experience a personal inner healing and transformation. So be careful. Don’t rush. Be guided by the right principles. I would like to introduce you to the One who has guided my own life. His name is JESUS! He said, “He who follows me wll not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” Please visit my website http://www.livinghopeministries.ca If you look in the right hand margin and click on to EAGLE COURSE you will find a 12 Lesson Workbook Manual that can be studied from the screen OR printed absolutely free. The very first lesson will tell you how you can receive Christ as your Saviour and begin a life that is so full it overflows! Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist.
the problem today is that there are certainly much more LESBIANS out there now than ever before, and much more women are choosing women over us straight guys. even the ones that are straight have such an attitude problem today, since i seem to come across these LOW LIFE WOMEN NOW.
as a straight man that was married twice at one time, being alone and single now sucks for me. i am in my late fifties, and i am very sincere about meeting the right woman for me again. both of the women that i was married too at the time cheated on me and i had never cheated on them, and i was very committed to them at the time as well. now that i go out a lot, i seem to meet the nastiest women with their no good attitude. why is that? as far as i know, i am not doing anything wrong. i just want to meet a woman that can be very caring and loving, down to earth, compatible, and have a good sense of humor. i will treat her the same way. i just can’t seem to be at the right place at the right time for this to happen to me. i would love very much to have the compatibility of a good woman, if i could only meet the right one to be with. are there any good women left out there?, i would like to hear from you.
You were married to two women at one time? They both cheated on you? Obviously, you’re not the best judge of character when it comes to women. But then we tend to draw to us the kind of person we are ourselves. A man who would take unto himself two wives can hardly expect much better. Polygamy never worked well. God started the human race with one monogamous couple. After the flood he re-peopled the earth with four monogamous couples. Later people practiced polygamy. God never approved of it but He did allow it for a while. But the one man and one woman marriage was the God ordained model for marriage so polygamy was eventually phased out among the Jews in Old Testament times. It was not allowed among the Jews nor the Christians in New Testament times, and never sanctioned by the church. Once you understand this and commit yourself to it you can begin to make yourself over into the kind of man a good woman would want to be married to. Better still, commit your life to Jesus Christ by believing the gospel – 1 Corinthians 15:3-4, – and asking HIM to come into your heart – St. John 1:11-12, Revelaton 3:20, and HE will change you from the inside out! Begin attending an Evangelical Church. Visit mt website http://www.livinghopeministries.ca and click onto the EAGLE COURSE. It can be studied from the screen OR copied absolutely free of charge. DO the course! It will change your life. Don’t worry, I won’t try to sell you something later on! There are no tricks or gimmicks in this ministry. I hate that kind of religion! Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist.
na man..it have good woman stilll…really hard to find but worth it when u get one..i did. go out and look my brother
hmmph,just accept it my boy,all woman nowadayas is “hoes”
……………… their r gud women out dre looking for a good man but its guys lik u that give dominican men bad names
TAKE YOUR TIME ARE GOOD WOMAN WILL COME MY BOY
Masterbation is always an option.
ur a retard
padna doe wait for good woman cuz dey dont exist… all women cheat lol trust me i kno cuz im a woman myself
That’s a DAM lie!!. Don’t listen to these losers. if you really want a good woman, just have faith in the Lord, don’t sit around and wait for it to happen; go out and look for one, visit different places,make new friends. that’s what i did and i have my ‘girl’ she’s perfect in every way possible; i still can’t believe it, but it’s true. so take my advice go out and make it happen.
ur girlfriend must b very proud of u……….
i am
woman u must b ashamed of ur self dang………jus because u may consider urself as a cheat n a hoe doesnt mean the rest of us dominican girls r………u got a low self esteem girl woke on tht
u r a female dog thats what u r
tell me this…most of the negative comments r coming fr men. y is that? y r y’all so scared? to get a real woman u have to be a real man. with all ur nonsense talk allu still wonder y women dont give allu a second look. there r alot of good women out there. but its men like y’all that make it so hard for us to completely trust a man – with all ur negativity and refusal of committment. my boy i applaud u for writing that n i hope u get the woman u looking for. u seem like one of the good few. i no its hard, cuz im 27 n i’ve been looking for that special one too. patience. it will all be worth it…i hope
OH YOU CAN CHECKOUT CHRESSY FROM NEWTOWN HE LIVING LUNG ACRE !
i in need of a good woman too wii… but i jus doe know hoe,when and where too look for them
boy tru ting!!!….some woman playing like is GOLD THEY POOOPOOINGG…..big boooo boooo they be…you will get a good one soon
check me….am good
Sounds Good…
Dire i really appreciate your boldness. Not in this modern society you will find a young man at the 24 look for a relationship. Dont bother I am 27 as woman & single.What you need to do is further your studies be comfortable with your standard of living then that good woman will come along. what you need to do also is go on date begin shy wont help. START TELLING GIRLS YOU LOOK NICE or ALWAYS LOOK AT THEM. look for some pick up lines,,, you should be very careful rap it up….
ghost doe worry u go get a nice sickie man it will cme one day papa
check me
LOL… Your user name is interesting.
boy trust me woman like me need a man like you
The Description looks like it fits your Classifications on the subject just right..
I am sure many of us wonder why things didn’t work out with our exes. Why is s\he relationship progressing with someone else that isn’t you? That same person we called a whore, dog, good for nothing SOB. Is living and loving happily with someone else that’s obviously no better than we.
I will say it like this, for all of you who are saying there are no good men and women left … There are a lot of good women and men out there, just because someone isn’t good enough for you doesn’t mean they are not a good catch for someone else. We are all able to bring out the worst and best in someone. But firstly we have to know what we want. Know if you’re looking for; a sex buddy or a committed relationship.
Know what you want, expect and deserve
To the young man know what you want from the relationship you’re seeking, you can start by trying to socialize even if it’s through social networking. You seem like the commitment type, don’t spoil your values, be yourself, and you’ll attract that person who will understand and work\play well with you.
thts right keep ur head up straight n dont let those silly guys negative commentment change u
There you have it !! Create your own good woman, though you will at sometime have to let her have her own way. But she’ll try not to be too rebellious over a period of time
At your age i must say you still young,when the time is right the lord will send you a good woman i to is waiting and always praying for mr right.
Bla bla
man u in deep trouble if at 24 u aint got d courage to talk to a woman in dis age of technology u r goin to b played like a soccer ballso get out of your dream and xplore life just be careful for when u r kicked for the first time it is really painful
My boi take it easy you will get a good woman, you know how long before i stay to get a good woman, right now i’m happy!! so just take it easy, my advise to you is that don’t go to the south for woman, to be more specific…Grand bay!!! stay far!!!
stupessssss not all grand bay woman dat bad and i sure is one u wanted and she didnt want u is y u sayin dat assness.
way papa whats wrong with grand bay woman? grand bay got d best woman mi san.
Could have left your number or sum wii
I’m tired of hearing people talking about a good woman is hard to find or that there are no good women out there! Bull crap! There are good men and good women out there – it’s just that some of us rather leave them down to go with the fast, easy to bed, all fake women/ men.
Yes, we first get attracted to the physical, but i say…once someone opens his/her mouth, you can know whether that person may be right for you!
It is not always the most sexy, most beautiful, most well built man/ woman who turns out to be the good one! It’s the unpretentious, laid back, down to earth people, who are confident but do not need to be in your face with it who end up being the good man/ woman.
My advice to you is stop looking for a woman – one will come your way…perhaps you are looking to hard and only concentrating on the fact that you want one, which probably hinders you form noticing those around you, or from attracting the right one.
there will always be women in the world – good and bad…it’s up to you to find one you like and whom you realise you can build something and then you two, together make each other into the good man/ good woman you want each other to be.
Padna don’t look for no good woman….enjoy ur life…have one night stands alone …whan u think a woman is good, she’s just the rottenest thing around…Remember to keep 2/3 condoms in ur pocket where ever u go. WARNING….Stay away from MASSACRE WOMAN…If she tells u she from Massacre, my boy just runn like u crazy and dont look back.
here you go again with the negativity no dam brain.
why do you hate people so much you need to get out of this world. i feel sorry for you.
@ Anonymous
You must be a man to make such a statement. I am objecting to your stupidity about Massacre women.
You are so naive and discriminating. I know some extremely nice Massacre women.
You may have had a bad experience with one or a few. This does not mean that they are all one and the same just as other women and men in any part of Dominica or in the world for that matter.
Have you ever considered your attitude and approach to them? The flaw appears to be on your side.
I consider you are an extremely bad man, one that all women should fear and stay away from.
@ Truth,love,peace AND @ Charmed….u’ll must be guilty of some crimes. Only the truth hurts…none of u ain’t GOOd i say….for real, if u from massacre u’re a bad egg and real bad news to any man. so relax okay
My dear,
There is nothing like the right one so do not wait on that. Be bold and make the first move start dating in so doing you will get to know more about people and look for those who have the qualities that you are looking for and build from there. But do not be too quick to restrict yourself to the first one who seems compatible explore your options you are still young and nowadays a good person is hard to find. And most inportantly pray to Jehovah with all honesty and he will guide you.
awa theres more to it than your shyness cause now a days woman look for cute guy or guys with money
his mouth maybe smelling.
Wait and u will find a good woma ….since from the age of 17 I met my boyfriend and we are still together….he is my first and I knw he will be my last……I a. A good woman indeed…buh my boyfriend always say to me…that finding good women aren’t easy…and are scarce…..u gotta get out of this shyness bro and start doing the talking……MUSLIM STORY..A KICK THAT WANT NUH? Come out there…no sense…WITH THE HAT ALLU HAVE IN ALLY HEAD…..STUUPPEESSSS…
You’re fornicating with a man so this disqualifies you from being a good woman. You are not chaste. 1 Corinthians 6:9 states that a fornicator will never inherit the kingdom of God.
In order for you to be a good woman, you must leave off this sin leave off polytheism and embrace Islam
i think muslim have a point ,if u are so good as u say why havent your boyfriend sweetheart marry u.(i am no muslim).but your boyfriend like that non committed life
me too have been looking (for a man. how bout we link up since we are both shy, looking and young. I am 27 but ageshould not be a factor of love.
I agree, age is definitely not a factor once love is involved and there is chemistry.
I’ll take you up on that offer, but I can’t leave my name for unnecessary publicity. So once I figure out a way, I’ll let you know.
Wow!
You sound great. I think you will attract the right woman by just being yourself. I know it may sometimes feel hopeless when looking for a romantic companion, believe me, I know from experience. 
I’m a girl & I would love to meet you if I haven’t already… I’m 19 by the way. I hope that you’ll find the one soon. Be well in the Lord, xoxo
You sound interesting… wudnt mind getting to know u
Thanks
… I’d be delighted in meeting you as well.
my boy let me tell dont pick none that work in any bank in da cause theres one that give it up on the 1st date.
look me right there….
Man must be aggressive.
Put it in prayers to God our father and watch him work miracles for you. It may not come right now but it will come at the right time. Do not rush it. I took some time to but the person I thought I was going to spend my life with turned out to
be a trixer. Was in it for money and what I have. Even tried Black Magic but I am a child of God and he and the other lady, his famely did not know I had the tools to break every spell in my hands and did not need to pay a dime. Thank God I asked for him to open my eyes as to whatever secretes he had hidden. Every thing was reveled. I am not on the Island but right now he is playing that game with some one in your country. But to God be the Glory. Also always leave space for letdowns. try not to love to to deep till you know who the next operson truly is from deep with in. To date he does not support his children fully but sends money to the one he recently married to in your country who is wearing my wedding ring I bought. And he’s running other woman off Island. From the young and wise to the young: continue to bill your self up the right one will come along in JESUS name. Love You and continue loving the Lord and put your trust in him.
Just take it easy… am 53 and am still waiting on a good woman… so this come to say… they do not exist…
Should we say that good men dont exist either? just because you have mot found the right one for you does not mean that there are not good women around. As a matter of fact there are so many God fearing ladies around who are practically sitting waiting for that right man. Honest , compassionate , loving , god fearing etc. Yet we keep hearing that there is not good women. I think the problem is that men prefers to go for the easy ones.
One needs to work on love all the time…its not a drink. Building love and trust is a contnous process even when you find that person who you think will make you happy.
hush up ur mouth u dont know whata good woman looks is
good women do exist don’t you think you are the one with the problem if at 53 you still can’t commit to a relationship with someone.
My dear friend,
Its very easy to determine that we need partners in our lives. However, have you taken the time out to pray about it. Remember the lord gives us all what we need for our survival in His time. and His time is the best time. So please take your time, and the good woman will come around.
Start going to church, develop or continue developing and building your spiritual life and that special someone will come along.
Trust in the Lord
Bella is correct.
There is much more to life than that.
I love those matters of the heart.
Young man, take your time. Do not be too anxious to meet a good woman. Go out and have some clean fun and in so doing you will meet someone.
It is not only a matter of finding a good woman but there are some important things to consider when looking for a good woman which will add to your happiness.
There will always be good women. They are by no means dwindling. Women too are looking for a good man, Mr. Right.
Women can also say that there are no good men. It is ignorance to say either, that is, all women are not good and all men are not good. The world consists of good and bad people.
The first thing you have to do is to date women. Get out of your shyness.
Good manners and discipline are important. When you meet her, approach her respectfully.
Do not throw yourself at any and everyone. You may have to date a few women prior to meeting the one of your choice.
Give yourself time in getting to meet her; also to know her when you find Ms. Right.
She has likes and dislikes. Be a friend without expecting anything from her or forcing her into anything, if you know what I mean.
Another thing is you have to learn women and about them. Too often people do not give themselves an opportunity to know the other partner.
Compatibility is important, socially and religiously. The woman must also be able to communicate with you on a certain level according to your education and overall knowledge. Women also like interesting men who have something educating to speak of and discuss. It is not always, love, love and darling I love you.
Do not try to change her to suit you. Keep in mind “Love is repaid by love alone.” Ensure when you meet that woman she is the one for you. Discuss those matters of the heart and which are important to you to make both your life a happy and loving one. Work on it and observe her mannerisms. Also keep in mind that she will be observing yours too.
Love is not something which is turned on and off like a tap.
Do not be superficial and do not feign affection. Be yourself. Be honest.
Some people like quiet people and others do not like too quiet a person. There are all degrees just as there are all types of people.
It is not always easy getting along with people who obviously possess different characteristic and personality traits. We do not all think alike. We do not always agree on everything. We see things differently. However, we are free to agree and disagree amicably.
Consider that brothers and sisters of the identical biological parents, brought up in the same household and received the same nurturing do have this problem as individuals.
Giving in, discussing amicably and compromising will help a relationship to grow in love.
Think of the Golden Rule; treat her with due dignity and respect in the same manner you expect of her.
Recall the words of the late Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., that “A person should be judged by the contents of his/her character and not by the color of their skin.” We could also state, not by what they possess, be it educationally or materially.
Conduct your searching quietly. Most of all pray to God to help you find a right partner. When you have found that one and plan to get married, offer thanksgiving to God. Practice your faith.
And if you are a Catholic, it is important to have a Catholic partner. Likewise if you are of another faith. In this way, there will be no bickering about religion and being forced to renounce your faith because of the other partner. Too often this occurs which does not assist the relationship and later the marriage. Think of children of that marriage. It would be confusing to them if one partner is of another faith.
As you can note, there is much to contemplate on when searching for “a good, compatible woman”. You can succeed with the help of God.
Our Lord Jesus Christ said: “Apart from Me you can do nothing.”
I wish you good luck and God’s blessing.
crazey u are setting this guy to be played. Riped off.Fooled by these gold diggers.
@ Fire
Who are really the gold diggers of the world? If he is sensible he should be able to detect them.
He should be aware of women who want money and who ask a man for money.
He sounds like a sensible man who can manage this situation. He is looking for a good woman; not a gold digger.
I do hope he finds this good woman. They are around. He just has to take his time, do not rush into anything and be sensible, also with the help of God.
These are some very encouraging words,thank you. The level of content is quite a bit so I’ll leave my reply at a minimum. But your Advice was well received and noted..
Dire need means- I need it now. I wonder if Bella herself have a man or if Bella ever get to first base.
At 24 dude you suppose to be counting the number of pussy cat that you have had. So this guy should look deep within himself and ask whether he really like women or not.
so stupid! The guy should be looking to do his Bachelors and Masters Degree! not counting pussy cat he eat
The best time to be piling up the numbers is during college years. So you right is some regards.
It just means that this young men has the realization that being with women is not just about getting a screw but alot more than that.. that shows his maturity he knows wat he’s looking for and sooner or later he will find it.. with faith…
to many young men want to add to their list of how many girls i’ve screwed and some decent young women in search of love and good character find themselves in a jacked up situation with a man who is not ready for no more than another night of some good pussy…
You are so wrong!
Dire means urgent and other relevant means. In the true sense of the word, it does not mean, right now or necessarily so.
He is looking and would like to find a good woman.
Young man, keep on looking. It is also stated, “Good things come to those who wait.” This does not mean you have to sit on it and do nothing. It also means: “Take time to do good.” At the same time: “God help those who help themselves.”
Did you observe how many words/proverbs we could use in this case?
You are young. Just keep on looking. I do believe that one day you will find the right woman. When you find her, proceed cautiously and treat her well.
We should always give good advice and provide encouragement and not the opposite.
Thank you again. Ukno when I was composing this I tried to watch my words carefully, cause I know there is always misinterpretations involved. And you are right, I’m not the desperate type, and I do have patience.
Dude you need to write to La bell instead of Bella. Bella is telling to wait until the right woman comes along whereas you are indicating that you need a woman pronto but you are just to slow to react.
Garcon here is what you need to do – develop some confidence adopt a few pick up lines whether they are popular or not , try them out you will hit a few and get a few friendly responses.Dude you are 24 and now is the time to explore women. If you wait and think that mis right is going to come by you got it coming my friend.
Making eye contact is the key – just make that constant eye contact and there you go boom you become the dominator.
Bella you need to go back to the drawing board.
No disrespect but if u want a good woman u will have to create her yourself. I was told so once by a very close intelligent woman twice my age. Seeing that u are not god then u need to find a woman that is compartible to u and prepare to compromise like 95% of the times and u will be in a relationship.
Here are some things to consider when u looking for a female companion
1. Sexually compartible
2. Ambitiously compartible
3. Conversationally compartible
4. Religiously compartible(where applicable)
Note. Only the brave and bold get what they want in this life, the other have to settle for whats left behind by the b&b. So that shy thing not going to get you what you want or need. Practice being brave and dont be afraid of rejection, good luck
@ Caribbean genuis:
The word is “compatible.”
We not in english class. Its a message
Tell her again..she and her novel she keeps writing.
da i finding! i seeing some kinda long long ting… me self i not goin n take my time n read dat eh! ppl dat reading mamzel comments doe have a life!
man first allow me to deal with bella.Bella hormones don’t jump like adisco people jump in a disco because of the hormone action. Next: you want a good woman,one who will always be there for you, one you’ve compartible with in every way.She will always be there for you anytime she will neve,never say no to younever night day, in between.The best part is you already own her. her name is Palmella. She’ll never let you down,she will never fool around nor hurt you.Rick Ashley
WELL SAID.
elizabeth
In dire need for a good woman
Bella’s advice to you is a good one, but as woman, I am advising you to take the advice of Caribbean Gennius.
My addition is that in today’s world shyness in a man, is very distracting to a woman. My personal kicks about a man is knowing that he is superior to me, but that there is this thing about me, that can still affectionately and lovingly intimidate him to give in to me.
Learn to thrive in affection, for affection is a great turn on to most good women.
But be patient, you will need Love, to boost, sanctify, and build your manner of affection, bonding you both in love, sensuality, or fleshly passion.
You cannot have one without the other, or things will not work out well. And since Love is of God, strive to keep Him in your Life, to guide your ways. You will have no regrets.
I see your point, and Naturally that is how it should be. I am not that shy when someone really gets to know me. That’s why I said (Shy at first encounter).
We not in English class?
Correction: We are not in English class. However, if you wish to write on a Website, learn English and spelling. This is the first thing to do.
Keep in mind you are writing on a Website. Everyone who accesses it reads it; people from all walks of life and educational backgrounds.
You mentioned the word “compartible” 4 times! This means you do not know how to spell it.
What does it tell about you who also refer to yourself as a Caribbean genius?
Geniuses know how to speak, write and spell. If they do not know how to spell a word or are in doubt, they are intelligent enough to look it up in a relevant place, dictionary or on their computer, to find the correct spelling and before sending it on.
I do recognize that everyone is susceptible to making mistakes and typographical errors do occur to the most intelligent person.
Accept with thanks concrete criticism and advice amicably which is for your own good. It was not meant to demean you.
Those who do not accept such advice depict that they are proud and haughty while they are not correct, are in need of correction and also refuse correction. They also wrongfully criticize others and for their writings. It appears that they do not wish to learn further and will never learn anything more.
Life is an ongoing learning and perfection process which every sensible and intelligent person should know.
As a child, my father told me, you never cease learning until the day you die. It is something which we should all keep in mind.
Furthermore, the thought has just crossed my mind, have you seen any incorrect spelling in specifically the Holy Bible? Food for thought.
This also includes all other critics who criticize the writing of others who do their utmost to write appropriately and sensibly.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: A man marries a woman for 4 reasons: Her spirituality, her beauty, her wealth and her lineage. He said marry the woman for her spirituality…
If you are serious about a good woman my friend, learn about Islam, worship Allah alone then He will bless you with a pious wife. There are many muslim women brought up properly to give you your rights as a man, a woman who would not talk back to you or insult your honor, only in Islam you can find this.
http://www.whatsislam.com
http://www.islam101.net
http://www.whyislam.org
So my boy muslim Always why muhammad had more than one wife. SHE is Spiritual beauty wealth. Thats why for me it hard for me to understander islam. I dont think it is honor two have more than one wife.DIRE a good woman someone who beside you in good time and bad time good cook respectful spiritual clean .
What u want him to get a slave girl…a yes yes yes girl…where’s the fun in that…no debate, no little arguments, no diasgreements on what t cook…o please. Guy you need to pray for God to help you and…you maybe need to go out more, or go to church more or something. Don’t worry, you’re still young, you’ll find her
please muslim, be a little bit less ignorant in your comments, I am a good woman and definetly not muslim. Please round up followers for your cause somewhere else and stop trying to segregate our population. Are you even dominican?? or one of the corrupt passport holders?
oh plz fool he did not ask for a submisive woman remember. he said good. Ony he knws what is his definition of “good”. My friend wait on the lord, he will give u the desire of ur heart.
Look Mr.D while you are correct that u you should wait on the Lord. How dare you tell the man he can only find a woman who is submissive in Islam. Come on D.
He will find the right woman if he waits on the Lord.
However Islam does not have the best women
shut your ass
i strongly dought that .. pray to Jehovah God
DNO should not be a forum to advertise your religion. Go and open your own website. There are many good christians and i know that there are many muslim dogs. you are always trying to do as if the muslim religion is the perfect one. You don’t know anything because you don’t know Jesus. and you convince people to go down your road. We as christians can talk to Jesus in Heaven. But can you talk to Mohammed. Maybe he is not there. I would recommend DNO stops this person from insulting christianity. Once again, go somewhere else to preach Islam. We do not want it.
TRUE THAT
@ Anonymous: YOU do not want it due to your pride and arrogance, however, many people are listening and learning about Islam from it’s authentic sources. Secondly, many good Christians? Then why is the divorce rate 1:2 in this country?