DEAR BELLA: My cheating husband is dressing his mistress from my boutique


I am a young entrepreneur. I sell clothes in a small boutique in town and my husband assists me. So, I can say we own the business together.

Bella but something is wrong. When I travelled to San Juan a few weeks ago to stock up on supplies, many pieces went missing.

I suspected they were missing and no money to prove that they were sold.  I left him in the store as usual when I travel. Bella, I keep proper inventory and when I inquired, he said he didn’t know. All the clothes missing were of the same size. XL.

Anyway, I said let me leave that alone. But I went on Facebook over the weekend and accidentally came across a young woman wearing similar clothes.

That same young lady has been accused of having an affair with my husband which he denied. I saw romantic messages between them and he said they were just close. But people told me differently.

Anyway, ironically four of the same pieces of clothes missing were seen on her on different occasions on Facebook. She is a party goer and a social media freak.

I mean she posts everything from food, parties to even her nails.

Bella, for the love of me, what are the chances that she would have the same clothes from my store, four pieces, even and the same size as well. She is a plump woman. A perfect XL. I did not confront him about it. What should I do?


Vex Wife



Hello Vex Wife,

From all indications, the clothes on this “plump” XL young lady were sourced from your store and before bringing this to social media, you should have confronted your husband.

The most he could have done was pay for his mistress garments. Or perhaps she did pay and he pocketed the money.

I really don’t know. But if your husband is milking your business to take care of someone else then it means he isn’t serious about his marriage, far less his business.

I think you should let him know that you saw the woman with four of the same pieces that went missing. You need to insist he pays for it.

And as for his cheating ways, well…I will let you decide what to do. Just don’t do anything that will land you in prison.



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  1. acephanthom via gmail
    March 31, 2020

    If you think your significant other is cheatibng don’t just sit and let the outsider win. Get evidence and go from there. WE can help you get proof of infidelity.

  2. acephanthom via gmail
    March 15, 2020

    Do you know you can get proof of infidelity.
    Do you know you can get the peace of mind you deserve?

  3. Pilgrim
    March 12, 2020

    First of all you did not accidentally came across her on facebook, you were vayaying
    the woman lol say pa sot ki nou mal lol

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    • keepinitreal
      March 17, 2020

      :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: …so true

  4. june
    March 12, 2020

    i would ask her four my clothes on fbook i going all on craiglist posting!

  5. Pilgrim
    March 11, 2020

    What a slap in the face Mister well bold face smh :mrgreen:

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  6. Bwa-Banday
    March 10, 2020

    Hey, mistresses need nice clothes too. 8)
    When you go shopping she holding the fort by keeping hussy happy so what you expect? She did not steal it I am sure so check hussy out for your money. Plus if she messing with him she has to look as good as you or else you self will throw maypweee for her saying she not in your league so chillax and be thankful the mistress only taking a few pieces of clothes and not stealing your hussy completely.

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  7. Kalinago Justice
    March 10, 2020

    :?: What’s wrong with this man,is he so foolish! :?:

  8. A Simpleton’s Take
    March 10, 2020

    Recommendation #1 – Since it is your boutique, file charges of theft against your husband and possession of stolen property against his Mistress.

    Recommendation #2 (much quicker and a whole lot cheaper) – Save yourself some legal fees and send the two-timer packing.

  9. PRO
    March 10, 2020

    Man is dog too,eh !

  10. EIFILE
    March 10, 2020

    Vex wife,you suppose to be angry not vex. A hard working married woman, try to make ends meet and, here comes a vampire on the side sucking your blood. Follow your marriage vows, four IN sickness,four in heath,four richer,four poorer,then plus your husband ,so you been married 17 times. Get some solid proofs and sue that parasite,for damaging your marriage.

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  11. Mark Joseph
    March 10, 2020

    Some men dirty wiiiiii…. No Boiii is your cloths. He take it and give it to her. Make sure he pay you. suckkerrrr

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  12. yes i
    March 10, 2020

    Fing man they talking about :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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