Man fined for slapping ex-lover, claims he cannot bear seeing her with another man

A Fond Canie man has told a Roseau Magistrate’s Court that he slapped his ex-girlfriend on Carnival Monday because he could not bear seeing her pass by with her new boyfriend.

The defendant, who appeared before Magistrate Candia George, said that he was caught with feelings of hurt and anger when his former lover, whom he claimed he spent thousands of dollars building a home for, passed by with her new man by her side.

“To be honest I felt a way. I did not mean to slap her, I still want to make it up with her,” the man told the court.

According to the facts of the case the incident occurred at about 7 p.m. on the said date.

The defendant had followed his ex-lover after she walked into a bar near his business place. He told her, “When you with your man why you passing by me?” He then walked away but later returned and slapped her in the face.

When questioned by police after a report was filed against him the defendant said, “The woman know I will get jealous but she still passing by me with her man.”

The defendant sought to provide the court with an in depth explanation for his actions during mitigation.

He claimed that it was very difficult for him to see that a woman he had invested so much time and money on had left him.

He claimed that his former lover had agreed to marry him after the house they were building was completed but she actually began dating other men and attempted to throw him out the house even before the house was finished.

The prosecutor revealed that the defendant has been slapped with two restraining orders against the complainant.

Before sentencing Magistrate George told the defendant, “I listened to you and while I feel your pain, it does not give you a right to put your hand on her.”

“There are ways and means of dealing with every problem but violence is not the way,” she added.

He was sentenced to pay a fine of $700 by April 15 or he will face one month in jail.

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95 Comments

  1. blackrose new york
    April 5, 2011

    boy, find a way and get your house, or make de woman pay u for your house.
    is your hard earn money that build that. the house was for the both of u, so if her good for nothing
    ass want another man, tell her make him put her in a dam house.

    some woman just impossible, i know alot of woman that want a good man that will do for them.
    so pick yourself up, dust yourself off. and i am sure u will find u a another woman, that will treat u how u deserve to be treated

  2. Truth, Justice, Love, Peace and Unity
    March 11, 2011

    It appears that we heard only one side of the story, his. Even though he was building a house for both of them, in the interim how did he treat her? Was their relationship a happy one?
    A woman does not simply walk away from a relationship and one which accords her financial security and a house. Something went radically wrong with this relationship why she left him and is dating another man.
    Jealousy will get people nowhere. One of the deadly sins is just that, envy among other relative words. It is a crime to hit/slap a person. If she is no longer his girlfriend and vice versa why should he get jealous that she is with another man? He can easily find another woman. It may be that he already had one, is jealous of the woman and do not want to see her with another man. He has no claim to her and worst yet slapping her. He deserved what he got. There is no excuse for his actions. He must curb his temper and envy mannerisms.
    What he implied to the Court is that she should not have passed by his business, on the street/sidewalk to go to the bar. She is free to walk anywhere in public. If she had gone into his place of business to make him jealous, then I could understand what he did. Even then, if she did not go to purchase a product in his business, he is still wrong in hitting her. The Law is the Law and people have to abide by the Law and treat others as they expect them to treat them – The Golden Rule.
    There are some men who can cheat and in secret on their women but they cannot stand it when a woman cheats on them or has another boyfriend.
    As a Dear Abby article, “To err is human. To forgive is divine.” For his sake, I hope he can make amends with her, if she will forgive him and want to spend the rest of her life with him. Should this occur, he should marry her. There are too many men who cohabit with women but who do not marry them. Make the relationship legal as well as godly spiritual. Marry the woman if she wants to take you back and treat her with respect.
    Women desire much more than money and a house. They want to be genuinely loved. If he expects that relationship to last, this is what he has to do. Love her, treat her with courtesy; accord her, her due rights, dignity and respect. Anything less is unacceptable and will never be lasting nor will happiness and peace exist in the relationship.
    Unless people as men learn that, they can expect a stormy relationship which will turn to separation and divorce, for those who are married. This is the problem with some people of today. They have grown to adulthood but it appears that they have not yet grown-up to be matured adults. When are they ever going to learn this. They must smarten up.
    I did not take such a course but my personal adulthood instinct and maturity dictates this to me.

  3. anonymous tip...
    March 11, 2011

    all i sayin is wat she get, she deserve bcuz is on purpose she do it…is his attention she wanted n is his attention she got….

  4. ooh Please
    March 10, 2011

    boiiii anytime u stress just come on DNO…nuff chicks boi!!

  5. wow
    March 10, 2011
    • Muslim_Always
      March 10, 2011

      Battery is not allowed in Islamic law, how am I lying? Do you know what battery is? The people you saw on the video clearly mentioned that battery is not allowed. Please stop trying to twist Islam. You are trying to imply that Islam teaches to batter women and these videos proves this is far from the reality. Secondly, one can see these are short videos the opponents of Islam are using ‘prove’ that battery is allowed in Islam. What a twisted way to do things.

    • Muslim_Always
      March 10, 2011

      Here is a true representation of the issue in Islam: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJNU2xx83nw&NR=1

  6. just being me
    March 10, 2011

    a guy once said to me, he would ‘burst my a*&’. I said, ‘man, it done split, u want to burst it? can’t afford that’. end of story. That was the last conversation we had over thirty years ago.
    That hitting is not for me, and if I don’t like you, I do not want want anything from you.

  7. Other side
    March 10, 2011

    The same thing that the woman did to the man happens vice versa. I was loving a padna and things I never did for any other man I did for mister. I even hepled him buy some stuff for our home we were moving into. It did not have a month he had those things by another woman who new he was with me. It did not have six months he married the other woman and i telling you all I gave mister was LOVE. So padna i feel you pain. I used to be walking and crying on me. But GOD does not make his children suffer. What goes around comes around. And i hope when destruction come his way i do not feel sorry for him. My padna I know what you going through.

  8. Just simple
    March 10, 2011

    if you don’t want the man give the man his dam house! you cannot have your cake and eat it! stupes

  9. Cudos to the magistrate
    March 10, 2011

    He has absolutely no right to put his hands on the woman. That is down right domestic violence…Pay your fine and stay the hell away from the woman…

    • mete veye
      March 10, 2011

      i know he has no right to slap the woman…but lets face reality now and put yourself in that man shoes..if the woman didn’t love and wanna be with the man she had no reason misleading that man..as my mother always say,” if you don’t love a man don’t go misleading the man and taking stuffs from him cause that can cause you your life” that’s my mother’s saying and it’s so true..as far as i see the young woman was provoking the man when she chose to pass at the man place with her new boyfriend..i think the man should go to court and put a restraining order on that woman.

  10. Caribbean Lady
    March 10, 2011

    Well, well well. All we see here is his side of the story and the vast majority of commenters cussing the woman and saying ‘she deserve it’. No wonder domestic abuse runs riot in our societies. She has had two restraining orders against him, yet he STILL abused her and all he gets is a $700 and cheers from idiots on DNO. If he kills her, it would be her fault too, right?

    I think the fact that she already had not one but TWO restraining orders against him should tell us that there is very likely another side to this story. You really feel he going in front a judge and say ‘well, truth is I used to beat her real bad and that is why she left me. ????

    Contrary to popular belief, most women don’t leave a good man who provides for them well just so. There are too many bad men out there to leave a good man. This man does not sound like one of the good ones.

    • mouth of the south
      March 10, 2011

      while u maybe right!!!!!! see the provocation,,,, someone has 2 restraining orders not to come near u but yet u decide to pass within the vicinity of the individual,,,, not saying u can’t walk where u feel but then in her case this proves that she was provoking him,,, think of it,,,

      • baby girl
        March 10, 2011

        she was not provking him u where there , d/ca is not his own, she can pass where she want

      • mete veye
        March 10, 2011

        mouth of the south you are perfectly right that’s the same thought i share.

  11. nectar
    March 10, 2011

    That is why I doh spending no money on no woman…………..All I giving them is Tube steak and hot dog, with a touch of Mayonaise…….They say is woman time right? well i will let the woman go and WORK HARD and i will stay home and be JOE GRIND….and bring a couple flex there while she out there HUSTLING…IS WOMAN TIME for SURE!!!!

    • baby girl
      March 10, 2011

      is woman time for sure, so shut ur a&^ u have money to spend on woman, woman dont depend on this fool ok. bye nectar

      • mete veye
        March 10, 2011

        who are you baby girl ..lighten up girl…the man has a right to speak his mind , and you likewise..don’t know why you gotta get all nasty..if you know it’s woman time now and you don’t depend on man for anything why are you taking offense ?

  12. WOOSH
    March 10, 2011

    Padna you take too long to married the woman. So what she has to sit and wait on you and at the end you turn your back on her. Go spend some more thousand on another one.

  13. ...
    March 10, 2011

    I am not saying he should have slapped her, but I understand.

  14. Muslim_Always
    March 10, 2011

    That’s how you all want the muslim men to be so that you women can use sex and good looks as a weapon? I am so happy for Islam, the man has his rightful place and our women are contented with this except the rebellious stupid ones who have been affected by the west.

    Firstly, no man or woman can live or be together out of marriage in an Islamic State, that’s a crime against the state. Second, well the man was foolish to put the house under the woman’s name. However, in Islam if the man built his home, whether they divorce or not the home belongs to the man, she will have to get her arse out! If there are children, the man gets custody of the children, of course during the nursing period the man has to compensate her on an amount agreed by both.

    If the woman had her house of course that belongs to the woman. The properties are fixed and legislated. No living person can tamper with one’s property. When death occurs then one can talk about inheritance.

    Men have greatly been reduced in this society. There is no honour and our men have a deep psychological problem. They have been psychologically molested by sick, rebellious and evil women.

    As for his hitting of the woman, battery is not allowed. He must have gone partially insane when he saw this sight and in Islamic law, the man is not punished if it is proven his partial insanity. Of course, if there was damage done to the woman, there must be come kind of compensation as he has come off his slight insanity (Gopwell) so he has to be accountable.

    As for these dirty filthy rebellious women on DNO talking about men this and men that. You all are just bitter, sick and abused women. You have a heart of stone! Shame on you, the poor man hard earned money built a home for his ‘woman,’ if she getting bad treatment why the hell she staying in the relationship for? She is a damn gold digger and a filthy wretched woman. May Allah deal with her the way he sees fit. Amen. That woman can never be happy, she has to live in the house and be psychologically and spiritually tormented.

    • Dominican in UK
      March 10, 2011

      muslim boy behave yr self!!!!!!!!!!!!! it’s woman time we don’t do one man to many women like yr religion ADVOCATES. take it easy boy.

      • baby girl
        March 10, 2011

        muslim man u lying, u all hate women ok women are domiant to u, that is a religion for the middle east women to hold on to cause they stupied that is not for Dominican women. you all can hv how many wives what the a^%

      • outrage
        March 10, 2011

        here we go again, can you not reply without involving ya religion

  15. no name
    March 10, 2011

    I am a woman and I do not agree with any kind of violence, but some women do look for it and I sure she pass infront of him on purpose. I know another person in the same kind of situation, when he met his wife she had nothing not even gces to get herself a decent job, he paid for her to do all the extra classes plus computer classes and sewing, cake making, cooking, typing classes, whilst he got up everday to work hard in his business, and she never wanted for anything even took her to america and england on holidays, bought her a car to drive around. With her new qualifications she was able to get a good job, now she don’t want him because she find somebody younger and better as she say. Now if the man decide he going to beat her ass or do something else to her everybody will call him wicked. Those women in D/ca nowadays they are all gold diggers and worthless little pieces of s!!!. They will do anything to get what they want and don’t care who they hurt.

    • baby girl
      March 10, 2011

      if u are a woman i disagree with u when u say some women look for it, nobody has the right to put there hand on one another.
      but for the other person ur friend wife afer the man help her to become somebody she should not do that, but dont worry what goes around comes around.

  16. outrage
    March 10, 2011

    sadly there are many women in dominica that are playing mans heart, for the soul purpose of money, i grew up being told some women have one man for bills, and another man who satisfie her other needs, it look like this poor fellow was de bill man.

    women in dominica can make men want to do such bad things, look at this one, she parading de new man in de other man face, can you imagine what would have happened if that had been a man showing his new women to his old, by heavens hair would have flown, and no court case i think.

    this poor man has been a victim of a womans evil intent to get what she wants, and all he did is hurt her the only way he could, as she has hurt him so very deeply. i do not agree with the slapping of her, but in times past men have done worst to women in dominica for less, so thank god he had some control, after she trying to drive de man to madness.

    hold on brother true love will find you, and when it do, she will see you have it, and realise she should have held on to you, cos now everyone know she a gold digger, so no man will be serious about her now,,,,

  17. Sonic
    March 10, 2011

    His Pressure up, his gwo pwel on him!!!

  18. Critic
    March 9, 2011

    Build your house in your name and have her live in your house so at the end of the day there is no kicking out. As to slapping her I am not saying that he should have slapped her, but I understand. Always remember my brother what goes around certainly comes around.

  19. Jayne
    March 9, 2011

    I am a woman and I’m TOTALLY against violent against woman but I’m making an exception in this case…that man should have slap her touncils out. After all he did and she had the nurves to rub it in his face. He’s not the only one…there are VERY few good men left in D/A and the two bit gold diggers are taking advantage of them and I will not stand for that. Heck if I was there, I’d probably slap the taste out her mouth too. Don’t worry man you are going to hear about her…that man is going to treat her like dirt and she’s going to beg you back. I only hope you don’t fall victim again…God’s good and you’ll find someone who loves you for you….best of luck.

    • Muslim_Always
      March 10, 2011

      Jayne you are absolutely right, at least there are women who have some sense of reasoning. All the negative women, my message to you is you’re worse than a damn sheep.

    • ONE LOVE
      March 10, 2011

      8-O did they say “ITS WOMAN TIME”?

  20. conscious
    March 9, 2011

    Some women ask for a good man though they are very scarce. She got one and did not now what to do. Hold tight brother though I am a woman *&^%^ is a bitch. She has to do the the current lover the same thing she has done to you. You will be laughing your heart out. You made the money by working hard just keep on working hard. Ask the to help you because it is hard watching what you have worked for being enjoyed by someone else. Don’t forget God is a good God. Keep your act together he will bless you with more than what you have lost.

    • Muslim_Always
      March 10, 2011

      Strongly agree with your sentiments, some of you ladies play too hard to get thus our brothers get demotivated sometimes :-D

  21. DPM
    March 9, 2011

    Some women really need to get it together. This situation is betrayal at its best. Bro after you serve your time sue her r*&# for every last cent you put in that house. Hope you have your receipts. All now she has another man enjoying the sweat of your brow. She can say thank God is a slap alone she get. We need to stop playing with each others emotions. I’m a woman btw; a young one too.

  22. worried dominican
    March 9, 2011

    the other man will take advantage partner you will have the last laugh,take it easy.

  23. HMMMMMM(the psychic)
    March 9, 2011

    Though I’m not agreeing with you slapping the woman but why invest so much of your money on her being that you are not yet married to her. No matter what you may do for someone , if that person is not in love with you they will not be in love with you. Just hoping you did not leave the house for her

  24. homemade stcroix
    March 9, 2011

    men ;’ women are to Find ,Feed Fu… and Forget. U was wrong to invest in us. so pay u have 2 Pay

    • babs
      December 10, 2011

      You may be that kind of woman, but doh speak for me girl. I am a WOMAN, and I am woman, but not your kind. If you can classify yourself as that type of woman, I as a real man, will not even look at you twice. Shame, no damn self respect for yourelf. Stop bringing yourself down girl. You talking Ras S***t

  25. Fond Canie I from We!
    March 9, 2011

    Are you sure is Fond Canie that man from….no one hear of that happening there.

    ADMIN – You sure is not Fond Cole?

  26. hahaha
    March 9, 2011

    Dominicans deadly wii boi .. lmao

  27. sweet pum pum
    March 9, 2011

    As a woman I think that is a hard one for any man to deal with. It was wrong of him to put his hand on her and the big question is was that part of the reason why she ended up leaving him ? Did he used to beat her in the first place ? Because no amount of thousands of dollars building house,promising woman you will marry her if you beating her then that cannot be good for her. There are three sides to every story yours, mind and the truth. So before we judge anybody and run off our mouths lets get the true story

    • Muslim_Always
      March 9, 2011

      Are you serious? It seems like from your writing you’re blaming the man, you think the man has the fault. Boy I tell you in this country.

      • Roz
        March 10, 2011

        eh Muslim Always? what you saying? The woman cannot and should not leave the man? And that give him right to slap her? I sorry for your Lady. She does maybe get slap up plenty since you think its the right thing to do.

        • raw dominican
          March 10, 2011

          for true your woman getting abused to i can feel it

  28. claude weekes
    March 9, 2011

    i agree with u padna u shud fu^% her up !dem woman in dominica all they want to do is eat your money an go ,fu$#krees they be , the only time they want u is wen u have a car

    • Objective (Mahaut Constituency)!
      March 9, 2011

      Whoever you are! I have known mr. Weekes from youth growing up and I never knew him to be in support of or even conceive such comments! I beg of you to use another name other than “claude weekes,” he is too much of a respectable member of society to have his name tarnished by use of such words! Impersonation is a crime, so stop using names of legitimate individuals to spread your propaganda!
      Your views on this matter is tasteless!!

      • Dominican Overseas
        March 10, 2011

        HOW R U SO SURE THAT’ NOT HIS NAME? IS THERE ONLY ONE “CLAUDE WEEKES” IN DA? N I AGREE WITH HIS COMMENT N I AM A DA WOMAN. WE R FULL OF ISH!!

  29. gazza kid
    March 9, 2011

    his pressure 2 high his gopwel on him

  30. Hairy Bank
    March 9, 2011

    Fellas I hope allyou learning from this. Do not invest in the hair bank because they does file for bankruptcy and all you hard earned savings/investment gone. Another man enjoying dat and even laughing at you and calling you dam$%s. Becareful with your deposits because these women only looking to withdraw.

  31. BIGGER MAN
    March 9, 2011

    While we see the humour in his gwopwell, I am so disappointed by the justice system. They plead with women to help prosecute these bastards and yet, when a woman takes the bold step you charge the man $700.00??? Whaaaatttt!!! No! Who know what he will do the next time? What is she gets pregnant? What will he do when he sees her with another man’s child?? Who is going to enforce the protective order? You know the police do the work, take these people to court and then, slap on the wrist.

    To the woman, I hope you have brothers!!!

  32. DO NOT CUT ME OF YOU NO
    March 9, 2011

    AS I WAS SAYING : All you women can say what all you want….While the man should NEVER slap the woman, it is wrong if the man invested in a house for the lady, hoping to marry her,and the lady in all her trickery and deception had another man on mr head…Guess those of you with sons and/or brothers will not condone that behaviour!!…WOMEN MUST HAVE STANDARDS AND CONSCIENCE TO…!!!!

    • Really???
      March 9, 2011

      Y should women have conscience when men don’t?? I think in dominica these men believe they can do what they want, this guy needs to grow the F$%& up and deal with it like grown men do. But it’s so hard to find a grown man in d/a when all of them acting like lil boys.. gzzzz

  33. mouth of the south
    March 9, 2011

    aye lass poor pity,,,,,, i can feel the man pain,,, no i don’t condone hitting a woman,,, no u have no right to hit my mother or else if u do i doing a year in stocky trust that,,, ur hand breaking,,,, but i can understand eh,,,, the man spent all that money on the woman,,if it wasn’t true she would have denied it,,,, u leave the man n have another pardna grabbing ur butt while passing in front of him (well it didn’t say that but that’s what happened,,, it did cuz i said so),,, ladies i pleading with allu,,,, some of us giving allu so much love n attention,,,if the day come u all leave us have some heart nah,,,, doh do us that man,,, how would u feel if after giving me all ur love we broke up n in a week time i passing with another woman,,,, holding n kissing,,,, how would u feel n i know lots of u been through it,,, the woman did provoke the man,,, knowing fully well he would be in the area while she flashing her new man,,,,, especially is the man is a hard-back already,,,,papa the thoughts that goin in ur ex head cmon don’t do these tings nah pal

    • Jayne
      March 9, 2011

      I’m a woman and I totally agree with what you said.

    • Anti-hate
      March 10, 2011

      @ MOTS: co-sign mayne…..that stuff isn’t funny what she did, provoking the man…if he was more bad-minded she would have got way more than a slap.

  34. happy
    March 9, 2011

    I am a woman and I don’t support what she did to him some women are wicked! I know of two women who did the same thing. If I was in his place I would do the same!!! Say what all you want!! I am a woman that will not support nonsense

    • Muslim_Always
      March 9, 2011

      Happy, praise Allah there are some people who still can think rationally unlike so many illiterates on DNO. Strongly agree with you my girl. Now I have to take serious precaution from this incident.

  35. metty
    March 9, 2011

    poor man kind

  36. Reader
    March 9, 2011

    Not to be cold but this man is a jack!! First, how de ass you going to invest thousands on a woman, building her a house … hoping she would marry one?! Do u even have prof that you invested in her house (or were you just one of those making more bomb than Russia)? Secondly, why the hell would you see her with her new man and slap her? And where de hell was the new man when you did that? Should have slap u right back! And most of all, WHY DO YOU THINK IT IS OK TO HIT A WOMAN?! Damn Loser!!

    • Muslim_Always
      March 9, 2011

      Your statements reflect damn foolishness, all the other people who supported that are damn illiterates. YOU ARE COLD and heartless. Creep!

      • Canefield East
        March 10, 2011

        @Muslim_Always

        You don’t sound like a muslim. You sound like you had a really bad experience with a woman which caused you to hate women. Pray a little more to Allah for him to cleanse you of this hatred and get a life.

  37. U THINK IS SO
    March 9, 2011

    WAY PAPA. BOY DO LIKE ME BOY.

    DOE LOVE WOMAN.

    F*&^ THEM AND PAY THEM.

    I STOP LOVE THEM KIND OF WEALTH DIGGERS THERE.

    MAN ALONE I LOVING THEM DAYS.

    NO WOMAN.

    CALL ME CUTE GUYS ANY TIME.

    • Anonymous
      March 9, 2011

      lol eh be you not easy

      man u loving …………lol……..no ……lmao

    • TRUTH
      March 9, 2011

      LOL

    • Anonymous
      March 9, 2011

      u are so funny! lol lol i c with u my boy!

  38. pat
    March 9, 2011

    IAM A WOMAN SORRY FOR WHAT SHE DID GETTING A HOUSE ANN DUMPPED YOU. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. YOU HAD NO RIGHT TO HIT HER. BE STRONG, SHOP AROUND THERE IS A GOOD ONE OUT THERE FOR YOU

  39. Happiness Ka Fan Cho Mwen!
    March 9, 2011

    But why do men beat women for? The reason I can think off is just to prove that: you can and will always be able to beat her, or to prove you are stronger than she is. Beating her tell that you have no self respect for your woman or women on a whole. Where is your sense of respect and equality. We need to respect women in this day and age. Where is your self confidence and respect for others and yourself. You have no self control hence you are an animal. What would happen now if you two were married – would you be able to trust her? How would you feel if you had seen your father beating your mommy? Would you no wrong in your father hitting your mother.

    Men who beat women today consider violence the only conflict resolution means that they can think off. They do want to talk or reason. If you get a gwo pwel, go away. Take a walk. Go and sneeze. Count 1 – 10. We are in 2011 in Dominica and civilization has been able to escape your mental state. We think that hitting her would have successfully passed the message across; hoping that she will come back and sleep with you. How do you feel when she is in tears? It is just not proper for us men, to hit.

    I can go on, but will stop here for “Mouth of the South” to put some more flavour, (I think he is a guy..right?)

    • Suspect
      March 9, 2011

      Happiness Ka An Cho Mewn! They do it because the women let them. I have actually spoke with some D/A women who tell me “he doe love me if he doe hit me”. These women need to stand up and let the men know they are not going to take it anymore. The young woman knew damn well she didn’t want that man why did she use him and then dump him? To the young man I say if you have proof that you invest money into building the house then take her to court and make her pay you back every dime. I’m a woman but sometimes we do too much to the men who we know is trying to take care of us. Young man it is not wise to raise your hand on any woman…Don’t worry about that gold digger…today is yours tomorrow is hers.

      • Really???
        March 9, 2011

        everybody saying that same stupid statement and i have NEVER EVER heard a woman say that ” if the man doe beat me he doe love me” NEVER. I think is men that writing that to make it appear that women say that… but i have NEVERRRR heard that from any woman mouth

        • ss
          March 10, 2011

          Neither and NEVER have i heard a woman say that either and even if she was a gold diigger that still doesnt give him the right to do it….

        • just being me
          March 10, 2011

          oh yea!! I once said to a friend I could understand why a woman would say if her man don’t beat her, he dose’nt love her. She said it was true, that’s how she felt. I was dumbfounded. I said that she and all the others who felt that way, were sick and had a “below par” selfesteem. People like this woman cause good women to loose out and good men to back out. If she was my friend, she would certainly would be on the other side of the fence!!

  40. wow
    March 9, 2011

    Guess his pressure was up cause his “gwo pwel on him” He should have just said “yaw yaw,how you doing” Guess he pulled a Charlie Sheen “losing”…FYI such behavior is wrong

  41. wow
    March 9, 2011

    parents do it to kids all the time.such double standards

  42. Dominican for sure
    March 9, 2011

    Reminds me of NEVER to invest in any woman….Let all what i have be mine…call me selfish, but us men go through to much for the sake of woman…IT’S MAN TIME TOO

    • hmm
      March 9, 2011

      women just invest in men too and then get that same treatment..so u better relax

      • hi speed
        March 9, 2011

        is true. but the you can see the man love the girl. but it would be interesting to no why she left him.

        but i can feel your pain my boy.

        just learn from your mistakes bro.

        i hope we men can see.

  43. kiki
    March 9, 2011

    i FEEL FOR U MAN.. BUT AT THE SAME TIME U HAD NO RIGHT TO PUT UR HANDS ON HER..I GUESS UR X WAS A GOLD DIGGER…
    I GUESS DAT GOPWEL SONG IS REALLY FOR U..LMAO..
    ON A MORE SERIOUS NOTE, THERE ARE SOME WOMEN OUTDERE WHO GET GOOD MEN, AND THEY TOOK THEM FOR GRANTED..
    NEXT TIME, BE CAREFUL IN WHO CHOOSE TO B UR GF..

    • Suspect
      March 9, 2011

      Well said Kiki

  44. Happiness Ka Fan Cho Mwen!
    March 9, 2011

    The women made his pressure shot up…but, watch your hand mister…..NEVER HIT A WOMAN!

    • hush
      March 9, 2011

      HUSH YOUR MOUTH.

  45. Dr.Finger
    March 9, 2011

    U think Gwopwell easy? Dominica man have to learn to keep thier hands in their pockets.

    • U THINK IS SO
      March 9, 2011

      AND ALL YOU DOMINICAN WOMAN MUST STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF WE DOMINICAN MEN.

      THE MAN COULD DO ANYTHING.

      YOU THINK IT NICE WHEN A MAN LOVE HIS WOMAN…..INVESTING HIS HARD EARN MONEY IN THAT WOMAN ……….DATING ANOTHER MAN DURING THAT TIME…..AND AT THE END LEAVE HIM AND GO.

      ANYWAY GUYS LETS LEARN FROM THAT.

      DON’T HIT THEM BUT WATCH HOW YOU SPEND ON THEM.

      • Muslim_Always
        March 10, 2011

        Don’t worry, that woman can never be happy.

    • sinister
      March 9, 2011

      Sum D.A women too ungratefull… They jus salop n like to play victim. D.A fellas should start doin like Trinidad: wen dem woman mess around, leave em chopped up in a barrel sumwhere:

      • Dr.Finger
        March 10, 2011

        I cant believe the mentality of the two previous responses. Firstly i am a Dominican man and not a woman. Secondly, in this day and age, what the hell a man doing beating up on a woman? She is not your damn child that misbehaved and need punishment. Thirdly, she is not a piece of property so quit that nonesense that man invest in Dominican woman. This is the mentality that is destroying our society. Only PIGS, DOGS & CRIMINALS beat up on women. Its not about love, its about him losing POWER over her. If the woman want to leat her go. The Gwo pwell will eventually go away like everything else. I swear I will HARSHAY a man hand if he beats ANY relatives or female close friend of mines.

        • ss
          March 10, 2011

          i so agree with you.. there is no excuse for hitting a woman and vice versa…. women need to wake up and smell the coffee

  46. What dat!
    March 9, 2011

    Eh las, the man pressure was up and the GP was on him. I think the woman should be fined for provocation, since this must have been a wilful act. Man does take too much blose boy!!

    • Bullet
      March 9, 2011

      Woman does take more blose!!!!!!!!……so tell him take that in his a***!!!! YAW ….YAW…LOL!!!!

      • Happiness Ka Fan Cho Mwen!
        March 9, 2011

        Bullet….you added some “sweet and sour” chicken to it….Yaw! Yaw!

        • U THINK IS SO
          March 9, 2011

          YOU DAM LIE. ALL YOU IS THE WORSE THING ON EARTH.

          GIVE ME GIVE ME GIVE ME.

          DAM PIGS ALL YOU BE

      • Anonymous
        March 9, 2011

        tru that

      • stop pointin fingers
        March 9, 2011

        D woman had to leave him cause it look like he use to hitting her, dat is y he come back n do it.

        • Excuse
          March 9, 2011

          had a good laughter… probably he was hitting her; probbaly she was a gold digger; at the end of the day we need to learn to control our emotions and persons need to learn not to provoke others. i feel this could be avoided had she gone .

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