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He won’t listen to me … no matter what I say

He won’t listen to me … no matter what I say

May 11, 2010 | Comments: 18

Dear Bella: I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I think he is totally incapable of listening to me. No matter how I try to get through to him, to resolve ...

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“If she think she crazy I more crazy than she”

“If she think she crazy I more crazy than she”

May 7, 2010 | Comments: 36

Dear Bella: I am a 17-year-old girl in 5th form about to sit my C.S.E.C exams this month. I am 22 weeks pregnant for this guy, but he has been recently locked up. ...

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My married life needs excitement

My married life needs excitement

April 26, 2010 | Comments: 38

Dear Bella: I have been married for two years. We are both working people with no kids. I feel like things are getting monotonous and I would like advice on some ...

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I need to “get a life”

I need to “get a life”

April 12, 2010 | Comments: 7

Dear Bella: I’m trying to figure out how soon after a break-up I should start dating. I’m a female in my 20’s and I’ve recently came out of a ...

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At the end of my rope with my abusive and cheating husband

At the end of my rope with my abusive and cheating husband

March 30, 2010 | Comments: 33

Dear Bella: My husband has become very abusive to me and my children after I got to know about his affair. He calls me and my kids names; he no longer respects me ...

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Gossip girls getting too personal

Gossip girls getting too personal

March 23, 2010 | Comments: 12

Dear Bella: I have been the topic of scorn and gossip among my co-workers. For some reason, they just do not like me, and use their tongues to tear down my good ...

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Fearful to tell my partners I have AIDS

Fearful to tell my partners I have AIDS

March 19, 2010 | Comments: 62

Dear Bella: I found out I have HIV/AIDS and I have not been able to let my partners know. I am afraid to let them know;  I have had affairs with married men. ...

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It’s hard to forgive my jealous, lying friend

It’s hard to forgive my jealous, lying friend

March 12, 2010 | Comments: 20

Dear Bella: I have known this girl for a long time since high school, but she and I were never friends. However, after high school we joined a youth group together ...

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“Mad sick head nuh good”

“Mad sick head nuh good”

March 8, 2010 | Comments: 23

Dear Bella: I know I am going to be scolded for this but I am 17 years old and for the past months I have been talking to and occasionally seeing this guy who is 24. ...

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I’m pregnant for my cheating boyfriend

I’m pregnant for my cheating boyfriend

March 2, 2010 | Comments: 21

Dear Bella: I was recently in a relationship with a guy who lives in a different state. We usually see each other on some weekends and on holidays. Last Christmas I ...

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Men who live with their mothers

Men who live with their mothers

February 26, 2010 | Comments: 29

It’s a recession, and I know a lot of men are returning to their parents’ homes. However, we note the ones who cannot return – because they have been there ...

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My husband is abusing me

My husband is abusing me

February 22, 2010 | Comments: 23

Dear Bella: I really need help. Not even professionals are helping me in this situation. For the past three to four months, I have been having problems with my ...

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Dominican woman stole my husband

Dominican woman stole my husband

February 19, 2010 | Comments: 40

Dear Bella: I have heard Dominican women can put a hold on a man – a hold so powerful that he would tell his children he was willing to take a chance on her ...

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Are you a fake?

Are you a fake?

February 18, 2010 | Comments: 39

How many of us are true Christians? True Catholics? True Adventists? Or how many of us are fake Christians? Well it is during festivities like Carnival that we can ...

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Should I get married now?

Should I get married now?

February 15, 2010 | Comments: 19

Dear Bella: I am a 26-year-old male and I’ve been with my girl for eight years now, she is also 26. Everything is great with us, nothing could feel more right.  ...

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Should I choose between my best friend and my boyfriend?

Should I choose between my best friend and my boyfriend?

February 12, 2010 | Comments: 14

Dear Bella, There is this guy that I’ve known for about four years now and we’ve been together for about six months. He is my best friend’s cousin, but ...

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Sunday is Valentine’s Day? Oh shucks; stupes, grrrrrr

Sunday is Valentine’s Day? Oh shucks; stupes, grrrrrr

February 12, 2010 | Comments: 35

I hate Valentine’s Day, I hate Valentine’s Day, I hate Valentine’s Day! Out of all the other “special days”, I hate Valentine’s Day the most! I am not ...

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Bothered by late night phone calls

Bothered by late night phone calls

February 5, 2010 | Comments: 35

Dear Bella: I live with my boyfriend and our two-year-old son.   We have had our issues but managed, somehow, to get over them.  But there is one thing.  He has ...

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In love with four women?

In love with four women?

February 1, 2010 | Comments: 16

Dear Bella:  I have a problem, I’m a 23-year-old male and I’m in love with four women. One might agree that at my age I’m to young to be settling down with ...

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Women we don’t like

Women we don’t like

January 29, 2010 | Comments: 51

A lot of times I’ve been asked my likes and dislikes for women. Truth is women can get on our nerves, but we just can’t seem to do without them. But how can ...

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Younger woman texting husband’s phone

Younger woman texting husband’s phone

January 29, 2010 | Comments: 19

Dear Bella: A wife saw a text on her husband’s phone with a younger woman asking ‘do you still love me? do you really love me?” He was confronted ...

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The guilty cheater

The guilty cheater

January 25, 2010 | Comments: 21

Dear Bella: I cheated on my boyfriend during the Parade. I am very guilty and I do not know what to do. I know my boyfriend said he has never cheated. But I feel so ...

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