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I am pregnant for a married man who doesn’t care

I am pregnant for a married man who doesn’t care

March 6, 2012 | Comments: 165

I was in a relationship with a man for over three and a half years until I found out that he was married and has two kids. Well I always knew he had kids but the ...

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My boyfriend cheated and now I am insecure

My boyfriend cheated and now I am insecure

February 28, 2012 | Comments: 74

I have been in a relationship with someone for 8 years plus. I love him with all my heart. He treats me like a queen. But lately he cheated on him. He told me ...

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I cannot ‘stand up’ with my wife

I cannot ‘stand up’ with my wife

February 14, 2012 | Comments: 123

My wife and I have been married for 17 years and we have three children. I consider her to be the most beautiful and sexy woman in the world. However for about a ...

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I am acting just like a prostitute

I am acting just like a prostitute

February 7, 2012 | Comments: 148

Many write letters to you and your readers consider them to be fake, but I am a real Dominican girl boldly speaking the truth behind the screen of a PC. I am an ...

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Am I an “old fashioned” mum?

Am I an “old fashioned” mum?

January 31, 2012 | Comments: 55

I read your article of the 13-year-old with a boyfriend and I also gave my views, but now I do have a mother at work telling me her 13-year-old has a boyfriend. How ...

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My mother wants to control me

My mother wants to control me

January 17, 2012 | Comments: 121

I am 20 years old and recently travelled to spend some time with my boyfriend, but I decided that I want to stay with him. My mother has been calling me asking when ...

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I am a 13-year-old and I am confused

I am a 13-year-old and I am confused

January 12, 2012 | Comments: 198

I am in 8th grade and I am 13 years old and so is my boyfriend. We’ve been together for four months and I love him so much but the problem is he cheated on me. ...

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My new boyfriend has another girlfriend

My new boyfriend has another girlfriend

December 20, 2011 | Comments: 69

I was in an abusive relationship for years and I finally got out. The man made me feel insecure and would hurt me in every possible way. I promised myself that I ...

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I am 13 and shy around girls

I am 13 and shy around girls

December 6, 2011 | Comments: 78

I am a 13-year-old boy and I really don’t know how to talk to girls. Plus they make wrong choices. I have just recently hit puberty and that opened my eyes to ...

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Older man wants me to leave my young boyfriend

Older man wants me to leave my young boyfriend

November 29, 2011 | Comments: 88

I started dating an older man (for the love of $$$$$) some time aback and I really like him a lot. But I was in a beautiful relationship with this wonderful and ...

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I lied to my fiance, I am not a virgin

I lied to my fiance, I am not a virgin

November 22, 2011 | Comments: 172

I am a 22-year-old from ..(name of village withheld to protect identity of writer) and have recently found myself in a dilemma. I have been dating the most amazing ...

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I am in love with two men

I am in love with two men

November 15, 2011 | Comments: 128

I am a 19-year-old, very beautiful attractive, intelligent young woman. I have a career. I have my own house and car but no kids as yet. I’m confused still ...

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My boyfriend flirts with other women constantly

My boyfriend flirts with other women constantly

November 8, 2011 | Comments: 54

I have been in a steady relationship with a young man for three years and counting. We usually get along well however, I am uncertain and uncomfortable about one ...

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I am about to marry a woman who has cheated on me

I am about to marry a woman who has cheated on me

November 1, 2011 | Comments: 47

I am about to become engaged and married to a woman that has cheated on me once. I forgave her and we have moved on since. I also cheated on her during our ...

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I have no feelings for my husband

I have no feelings for my husband

October 25, 2011 | Comments: 72

I’ve been married for the past 13 years to the only man I’ve ever been with. We have two wonderful children and he is an amazing father. We share a really nice ...

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Tell him to leave my boyfriend alone

Tell him to leave my boyfriend alone

October 18, 2011 | Comments: 127

I have been gay since I knew myself. I met my boyfriend during my high school days at (name of high school withheld) and things have been very good in terms of ...

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The pastor’s son won’t leave me alone

The pastor’s son won’t leave me alone

October 11, 2011 | Comments: 130

I happened to be in this situation. I am a young single mother who is very active in our church. Recently I was placed on a fund raising committee in which I worked ...

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I am married but I cannot get this other guy off my mind

I am married but I cannot get this other guy off my mind

October 4, 2011 | Comments: 153

I have a situation and I need your advice urgently! I am a young married lady in my 30’s and has been married for six years. Three months ago I came into ...

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I discovered photos of nude men on my boyfriend’s phone

I discovered photos of nude men on my boyfriend’s phone

September 27, 2011 | Comments: 117

I am in this really weird situation. One night my boyfriend was sleeping and his Blackberry kept on bleeping indicating incoming messages. He is a hard sleeper and ...

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My husband is showing no interest in me

My husband is showing no interest in me

September 20, 2011 | Comments: 83

My husband and I have been married for six years. At first we had a very healthy sex life and we have two children. However, within the past year and a half he has ...

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One night stands act as fuel booster

One night stands act as fuel booster

September 13, 2011 | Comments: 91

I just started college and the work load is kind of getting to me. I wanted something as a ‘free up’ on the weekends to get my mind off things. Well, I ...

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My mother is getting close to my boyfriend

My mother is getting close to my boyfriend

September 6, 2011 | Comments: 44

I just wanted an opinion on this. I think you might laugh and saying I am bit stupid if not paranoid but my mother is getting to close to my boyfriend. My boyfriend ...

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