Worrying wife uneasy about husband’s behaviour
Dear Bella: When I met my now husband our relationship was like an open book; this was under ...
Suicidal man has major heartache
Dear Bella: My girlfriend left me because as she claims things were not working out, and now I ...
Single woman can’t get married man off her mind
Dear Bella: I have been seeing a guy for about three months now. He used to come to my coffee ...
My best friend is getting too close
Dear Bella: I think my best friend is falling for me. I believe she is getting too close to ...
I’m falling in love … but he’s married
Dear Bella: I don’t know what to do. I met this really nice guy and he is married, but the ...
Ex lover wants to reignite an old flame
Dear Bella: My boyfriend of 3 years who broke up with me wants to get back together. We were ...
21-year-old anxious for baby
Dear Bella: I am 21. I feel I am ready to have a child as it is my intention to further my ...
Caught up in a family conflict
Dear Bella: I am between a rock and a hard place and don’t know what to do. First of all you ...
19-year-old mother hurting
Dear Bella: I feel that my relationship is going down the drain. My man is 24 and I’m 19, ...
She says he’s just a friend
Dear Bella: I am in this relationship for the past two years with this young lady and we have ...
Married woman lacking love and attention
Dear Bella: I am a married young lady going through some things in my relationship I just ...
Anxiously seeking companionship
Dear Bella: I am a 26-year-old young woman who is scared of giving my heart to a man. I date ...
Insecurities bring lack of trust
Dear Bella: I need some advice and I hope u can help. My boyfriend and I have been in a ...
I still got the ‘hots’ for my high school sweetheart
Dear Bella: I’m in a complicated situation where I’m in love with two guys. One is my ...
He refuses to pay the bills
Dear Bella: I’m in my 20’s and currently living with my boyfriend for the past ...
Looking for love in the wrong place? Part 2
Dear Bella: Your readers were quite rude in my last letter (See ‘Looking for Love in the ...
I feel like my boyfriend’s personal slave
Dear Bella: I have a child with my boyfriend whom I have been with for seven years. During this ...
My boyfriend eats like a “pig”
Dear Bella: I have a serious problem with my new boyfriend. He is wonderful and the whole nine ...
Boyfriend number one or number two?
Dear Bella: I love reading your column and your advice always seem helpful, so I’m hoping ...
Ready for war
Dear Bella: I am at my wit’s end so I’m writing to you to advise me how to end this ...
Follow your heart
Dear Bella: I am currently in a long distance relationship with my best friend whom I have ...
I’m in an abusive relationship
Dear Bella: I want to leave my boyfriend but I don’t know how. I depend on him for ...